or it wouldn't end!<p>A really great friend once said this to me, and it makes so much sense. No matter how you look at it. . .<p>Marriage - spouses get hurt, there is usually much turmoil between them. If there are children, they are always affected in some way.<p>Affairs - EVERYONE gets hurt in some way.<p>Life - well, that's a given.<p>And I'm sure there are many other things that can be added to this. However, it's not how things end and the disruption that an ending causes that should be focused on, because that's all done with and can't be redone. It's how you pick up and move forward that's important.<p>My new closing and words of advice to all. . .<p>Be true, stay strong, but remember that it's ok to feel weak at times.<p>Best to you all. Just a thought I wanted to share with all of you. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

My dear Tutter, you are a gem!<p> [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]