I spoke to my mom this morning and since, I have an unshakeable doubt in my mind of what my H has told me about his near EA. He swears that nothing more happened and not really all that much of flirting with her. He had been getting rides home with her during that particular week until I went to see the event he was working on and she acted so-o-o scared of me, that I thought she was jealous and told him no more rides with ANY woman, especially her. Anyway, my mom said that she saw that my H has a sneaky side. I have my doubts, but I've always felt my H was fairly open with me except during this incident. Yet, I still feel like something more happened. The other night, I LB'd and tried to get him to tell me what exactly he said to her and her to him. He told me that he had commented on how she looks, that he said stuff like, "What about me?" when she told him she was interested in another co-worker. He also told her and a couple of other friends the "My dad was married 5 years and got divorced...so now it's my turn..." story. When a friend asked if he was going to leave me for B (this girl), he said "Oh no!!! I'm not ready to give up on my marriage." What is going on? Why would B be so scared of me if nothing more happened? Could H telling her that I was upset about it all be enough to make her nervous around me? I mean, anytime she sees me, she acts like a deer caught in headlights...she freezes. I hope this is clear. I have posted my story in the past, but I don't know how to link it.
