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My H has allways kept things from me,but never phone calls. he would allways stay in the same room to talk to whoever he was talking to.this has just started happening since a month back when the whole thing started between us. as far as his friend he diden't much hang out with him at all,only really saw him at auctions when my H would go,or his friend needed help with something which was very rare. he has been going out alot since this has happened also to where he did not do that before. before all this happened he really started letting himself gofar as shaving not just looking nice. now the last few weeks that has changed. i noticed that he keeps his shaving up ect. now i did tell him awhile back before all this crap started that i would like him to keep himself up better. he really diden't say anything to that. ok first i thought well maybe the reason he just started to keep himself up was because i ask him to before all this happened a month ago,but every since this fight has been going on why would he all of a suddun just do that, know now i just did not care about the marrige anymore due to what all he had done. plus as i think back he had alot of atm with draws and the bank notifed him and said he owed $243 worth of over drafts [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] and i took that 50 ways to tell if H is cheating and got 7 out of it. plus took a nother one out of 13 questions and got 7 out of that one he was doing. not to mention GUT feeling.
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itd,<p>Thanks for posting this where I could read it...the board has really been moving fast lately.<p>Also thanks for giving me more information about your H. Although all the evidence does add up to make it look like your H is having an A....don't confront him with it. He's just going to lie...and then he will learn how to be more sneaky...once he knows you have an idea.<p>Try to keep all the things you find out to yourself....until you make a final decision on what you are going to do. Than you can confront him with it.<p>Do YOU think this marriage is worth saving?
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