Hi:
Although I see so many similarities in everyone's stories, I'm wondering if any of you were in my situation. My H of 11 years left me 5 months ago...and moved right in with OW. I was stunned, did not see it coming, thought we had a great marriage, etc. Not sure how long the affair had been going on, but suspect about 6 months. The difference with me is that because we don't have kids, we have had virtually no contact in the past 5 months. He has shown no ambivalence, says he wants a divorce and claims to be very happy with OW. The only time we talk is to discuss financial matters, and he is very tight-lipped about anything personal. He has completely shut me off, and shows no signs of coming back. But everything I've read (books, websites, stories) says that sooner or later, the romance will wear off with the OW and most of the time they want their spouse back. Am I in denial thinking this will happen? I'm starting to panic because we meet with our attorneys tomorrow to discuss the division of assets - yikes! I guess like many of you, this has been so hard to comprehend because we had such a respectful, loving, fun relationship - I thought he was my best friend. We rarely fought, traveled a lot, and were laughing most of the time. It's hard to believe I'm dealing with the same person. Sound familiar? It's his complete shutting me out that has me baffled and wondering...is it truly over? My instinct is to have my attorney stall the process as long as possible without my H knowing that that is what I'm doing. I'm a little nervous to see him tomorrow as it has been months since I've seen him. Any thoughts?