Well, this is just hillarious I guess. My H and I haven't heard of the OW in more than 2 years now, not a peep, neither we cared, as a matter of fact my H was hoping she was dead, overall after the letter we found, with her telling the world how my H was her very own "project stupid" and all.<p>Monday I was working hard, like always, trying to move some stuff around the office, my co-workers were running around doing assignments all over campus, so I was alone. I was moving some boxes when this woman comes in the office, nobody is allowed in appart from staff, so that weirded me out. I put the box down, and asked in what could I help her. I was smiling and being graceful, I was actually in a good mood, and I didn't recognize her.<p>She started to make this little glutural noise, like she was chocking or something, had her mouth open and was scratching her arm. "Is Mr Alostwife here?".<p>I answered, no, he doesn't work here anymore, anything else I can do for you?<p>She stood there looking to the ceiling doing the same irritating noise, then looking at me, from head to toe and back. She was wearing kind of very old red jeans and her shirt was stained with something that looked awfully like bbq sauce. She didn't seem to smell nice either.<p>Then it hit me, it was OW, just 4 times more skinny than on the only pics I ever saw her (2), guessed it was her by the "I am smelling dog poop" expression she always had, she was all bone, a stick, like a little somali boy, her hair was starting to turn grey and she looked like she hadn't slept for days, a salvation army case, that or a desintoxication center.<p>After 4-5 more minutes of acting half retarded half distracted she asked: "How are you?",like if I had just popped out of nowhere, mind you I had been standing there the whole time trying to find something to say, but I am suppossed to be nice to people or I could get fired, despite I was waaaay off guard.<p>I told her I was Mrs Alostwife. The look on her face was like sweet victory to me. She turned white, (and believe me she is not white, so it was rather impressive), opened her eyes as big as dinner plates, and RAN yup RAN away, as fast as she could, just as if I had grown an extra head and it had invited her to go out for a drink.<p>I told my H when he came to pick me up for the day, he was shocked, and suddenly went into "Can I kill her if we see her?" mode, of course I had to beat him a bit up to make him stop, but we didn't give it much thought, it was good enough to see her run down.<p>The next day I was staying at home, I was exhausted so my H decided to let me sleep, he went to work. When I woke up I went to look through the window, and I see OW herself driving into the parking lot in a very pucky looking Honday Civic, and she just sat there, for what seemed an eternity, and then drove away.<p>I think she is loosing it. She has schizophrenia and other mental disorders running on her family, so it doesn't really surprises us much.<p>My H is very mad and claims he will definetly give her hell if she even tries to bother me, and believe me I do think he would, he is sooooo angry at her he could decapitate her with a tiny winy very dull plastic spoon.<p>What should I do if she intrudes again? Should I say something? no? yes? if so what? any ideas?

Call the cops........this woman is dangerous, and by your description, desperate. A bad combination. Don't laugh this off, it definetly is NOT funny that she was outside your home. That IS stalking.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

I agree 100% with nina, view this as a threat, and start defensive procedures, first by filing a police report, and under NO circumstances should your H talk to her, this only encourages stakers no matter what he says, let the police handle it..and be VERY VERY careful.

How do I file for this with the police?
I only have actually talked to her once.
You are right, it is starting to get to me, I could laugh it off for the last couple of days, but this... woman-thing-being, used to live on this house, and my then H was so stupid he didn't think of changing the locks.
When I first moved here we had a couple of incidents with someone comming in the house and doing some very bizarre things. <p>She loves eating McDonald's happy meals, she would go and decapitate and pull off members off of the prize toys and hide them in the most bizarre spots. Back then when I told my husband he brushed me off sooooo bad I never had the guts to ever bring it out again.<p>He is going to change the locks ASAP and we are getting out of here when the lease expires.<p>Any idea on how to get a restraining order in FL? we have no way to contact her, we dont know if she even lives here at all, and she is paranoid so all her info is unlisted, as if anybody would want to talk her anyways.<p>My H says that she was always paranoid someone would steal her identity if they new her phone #, but wouldn't mind having unprotected sex with one night stands that she'd pick up out of the street.<p>People are so weird.