Well, today is the day I have been waiting for since 2/3/2002. I have been out of twon since then for work and I am going home for the weekend. WH is picking me up at the airport and hopefully we are going to have a wonderful weekend together. <p>I spoke with Steve Harley this morning and I am ready to Plan A, Plan A, Plan A. My WH lives with a friend in an apartment, but I am hoping that he will stay with me tonight and Saturday night. We will see. OW knows that I am coming home for the weekend and that he is going to see me. I hope she becomes the LB queen. He told me that he wanted to just stay in this weekend since we did not have a lot of time together before I go back to New York on Sunday. I think that is a good sign. <p>Another really good thing for me is that his brother is back in town after living away for the past few years and his brother and sister-in-law and their two girls love me. I adore them and we get along really well. They have been there for me every step of this and from what I understand BIL has been keeping my WH very busy that past week since he got back in town. I will have to send him a thank you note. They don't know that we are seeing each other again but according to my WH we are going to tell them. That is a big step for my WH since my BIL told him on d-day that I was a princess and deserve to be treated like one and that if he would not do it to leave me alone and let someone do it. He really wants WH to come around and save this marriage, but he does not want me to be hurt anymore. He is definately on my side. Having him around will be a big help. <p>Just had to get this out. I am so excited about the weekend. I will do everything within my power to do the perfect Plan A this weekend, but prayers from you all that I don't mess up would be much appreciated!!!<p>Update coming on Monday. Fingers crossed.

Good Luck!! And I wish you strength to bite your tongue on any LBs! Have a great time.

((((SinkingFast))))<p>You go girl! You know how to reach me if you need support over the weekend [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Thank you both so much for your thoughts. I will do everything within my power to not LB and just have a good time. <p>BR, I sure hope that you don't receive any hysterical phone calls this weekend. I may call for a Plan A boost if I start feeling low on Plan A fuel. Right now I am pretty charged. Talking to Steve H. always gives my a feeling that I can take on the world. Either way I will try to give you an update call on Sunday night when I get back to the big apple. Cross your fingers for me.<p>Both of you have a great weekend. I plan to.

Have a great time...remember that you are spending time with the one you love, let the negatives drop away for this visit.

Hey!<p>I am SO with you this weekend, girl! You can do it, and if you feel a bit weak in your awsome plan A, then pop on here and we'll top you up with support and encouragement.<p>You're in my thoughts and prayers!<p>hugs,
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