For those of you that don't know my situation, my WW had a PA, I went on anti-d (zoloft and efixor at different times), she left em for the OM, the OM ended it, she came back, started on recovery, and she moved back in on Monday.<p>Somewhere between the beginning of our recovery and her moving back in (at least five days prior to her moving back), I have experienced an increased labido. It has been very akward. Rubbing my wife's feet can cause a physical reaction, talking to her on the phone can do so. Thinking about what they did sexually can even cause it! The last I dislike the most - it makes me feel dirty as if I am excited by kiddie porn or something.<p>I spoke to my counselor about it and he stated that such was not uncommon but that he did not know the reason for such. I even asked my doctor if she could prescribe anything to decrease my labido. Neither I nor my wife want to have that sort of relationship yet. We are still working on simply being kind and affectionate.<p>Has anyone else (especially men) experienced an increased labido at any time during the betrayal and recovery? When she was still active in the affair, I had NO labido what so ever (I think much of it due to acute depression).<p>Do any of you have any ideas as to why this would occur? I thought perhaps it was some man/animalistic response or desire to go reclaim what is "mine" - that mentally I want to restake (pardon the pun) my "claim." I have no clue honestly. I just know that it is not an enjoyable situation to be in - especially the fact that I get a physical reaction for visualizing what they did.
