I find it interesting the way my W thinks during this time. She messages me this morning asking about our insurance and demanding to know why it wasn't switched to a different HMO. I had gotten the package regarding insurance a couple weeks before D-Day and the deadline was a couple weeks ago. I approached her about it SO many times, "we need to go over this so we can choose the right plan, it affects both of us" yada yada. She was so wrapped up in trying to see OM that she didn't care.<p>Now her counselor is no longer going to be covered under the plan that we have, the one that should have been changed. She started in on me so I closed the messager and logged off. She emailed me saying I was blocked and that she doesn't want to even talk to me because I make her feel she's not worthwhile. So be it, that works for me. I have no idea where her head is or where it's been the last year. Be glad when this Divorce is over with.

Hi SG,<p>The babble is horrible isn't it? I know, they make statement and decisions and when we let their decisions stand, they get mad. I have been accused of letting things fall through the cracks only to remind him that it was 'his decision'. I can prove it and when I do the egg is just smeared all over his face. Doesn't look nice or smell nice. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] <p>So when he begins to babble, I remind him that I have no control over him but I do have control over what I choose to listen to. Then I tell him that his babble is too confusing and he can talk to me when he is no longer babbling. Then I walk away. I have done this a few times. Seems to be the one way I can prevent an LB. <p>L.