Right now I am so po'ed that I could scream. My oldest daughter has a new boyfriend and he just happens to have another girlfriend. I flipped when she told me and her father said "no harm it's not like they are married". Then I really flipped. I guess we need to teach them early on how to become WS's and OP's. I am at a total loss here. First my H cheats and now my daughter thinks it's okay to be with someone who is involved with someone else. Life really sucks sometimes! [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img]

Hello Tiny Dancer. I noticed you didn't have any responses to your vent so I thought I would give you my point of view. I am a former WW and I understand your concern for what our children learn. I tried to shield my kids from the fall out of my affair and I did a pretty good job of it too, My husband is oblivious to everything around him so he had nothing to say about it. <p> I think you should talk to your daughter and explain fidelity and tell her in terms she can understand about the hurt she could be causing someone. I don't know her age but if she is older than 13 then she needs to understand the basics of fidelity. I'm sorry for your pain and I wish you luck and hope that you get more support here. I noticed that mainly the melodrama postings are the ones that get the most attention and support. That old squeaky wheel theory I guess.