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For the first time that I've noticed, I believe my W did not visit OM when she went out the other night even though she had the chance. In fact I think she's avoided evening liaisons all week. What could be the cause? She has not changed in her cool attitude towards me as far as I can tell.<p>Could this be moving out of infatuation and into a real relationship? Should I modify my behaviour in some way?
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Good Morning Paul, Why change your behavior when things are looking up? I understand you want to make everything better in a fast way, but stay the course if it seems to be working! It takes time to see changes in the overall attitude. Patience. Plan A, plan A, plan A!
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Stop press - No, this is very bad.<p>OM has just agreed separation terms with his W so he will be free to set up with mine. Now I suspect I'll be pressed to sell our house to split the proceeds. What can I do to improve my chances?
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