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I hate to do this, but it's better than the alternative.<p>Surely there is someone else out there who needs to wallow for a minute or two. Someone else who wants to reach out to their "friend." <p>It is just so hard to let go of an EA. I miss being in touch with my friend so much. I miss his emails, I miss his voice, and I miss seeing him. But I will excert self and I won't email or contact him. Instead, I'll email my H and tell him how much I love him...and I will email here with the hope that someone else wants to wallow in their own misery for a minute or two.
Thanks!
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I can't wallow for the same reason, but I'll wallow because I miss my H. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Will that do? [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> Instead, I'll email my H and tell him how much I love him <hr></blockquote><p>Yay youuuuuu!!!!! That's great!!!! Keep it up! Reach out to your H... reach out to us... you're doing great!
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Faith1,
Thank you so much for indulging me (I was afraid I might get scolded..and probably deserved to be!) Anyway, I'm sorry that you are missing your H today.
I feel so stupid and self-centered. I came so close to ruining my marriage and my life, how can I even allow myself to wallow for one minute..I have so much to be thankful for. I guess it's just one of those crazy heart and mind pulls...that make no rational sense but none the less, destroy lives and families everyday. What's the biological purpose for these conflicting emotions?
Anyway, thanks...And I hope you cheer up!
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