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#984755 03/12/02 11:44 PM
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Hi,
Can u all please keep my post bumped up daily, for anyone know anything about computers? I have been trying to snoop, and see what all my H is into on the computer. Due to his lies to me all the time, xxx porn sites, live webcams. I have a feeling he is cheating on me. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] Now i would like to find some free snoop detectors, as i don't have the money now to bye the soft ware.. Do any of u know if there is any out there? Thanks Cathy.

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sorry, I don't know any free ones & am not that great on the computer (learning as I go)<p>One thing that I did just learn of (from my 11 year old) that there is a history part on your computer, that tells you every website visited. <p>Hope others can help! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]

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Ok, I looked at your line of text again. Just cannot give up on a puzzle.. . this is what I came up with. It’s cookie type info. Cookies are files that web pages put on your computer. The web pages use them for various reasons. <p>This almost looks more like a fragment to me. Are you absolutely sure that you got the characters correct? For example, are the spaces really there? Spaces or lack there of are very important in computers. We would say that spaces are ‘significant’. <p>Also, are the words correct? Or example is oridinay really ordinary? Is it really cutK or cut?<p>
url 2 eoridinay woman%2 ffriend angels%2 ehtm short cutk none visits2<p>the following bits are hex code, they have special meaning to the computer.
“%2f” is a ‘/’ “%2e” is a ‘.’<p>So a rough translation of this is ….. I say rough because something seems missing…<p>url.oridinaywoman/friend angles.htm<p>friend angles.htm<p>It looks like there is a file named ‘friend angles.htm’<p>Why not do a search of the entire computer for the file…. I would search on the file names and then on file contect for ….. ‘friend’ then on ‘angles’ also search on ‘oridinay’ or whatever is correct.<p>I’ve already done some internet searching on these with no results.<p>If you want to, email me at zorweb@hotmail.com

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I don't know what line of text zor is talking about, but my guess would be a cookie, and it would be a site called ordinary women, or has ordinary women in the meta tag thing, and there is no short cut made to the page on the desktop, and there have been 2 hits (visits) to the site from that computer.<p>Just for fun do this:<p>on your desktop, what you see when no programs are running, double click on "my computer" it has a little pic of a computer<p>when that is up, it will look like a web page, but where the address goes, type this -
C:\WINDOWS\Temporary Internet Files<p>this file contains all your "cookies" <p>cookies are information stored on your computer of web pages you have been on.<p>when you go to marriage builders, and it already has your name logged in, that is because of a cookie<p>look at each one of these cookies individually by double clicking on it<p>you may get a pop up window that says a system command may be unsafe, you can ignore that (I did and nothing blew up)<p>it will take you to the web page visited, or it will display some kind of information regarding the site<p>Let me know what you see.<p>Elizabeth

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If you will email me I will get you set up with a snoop program. I have helped many others set this up. Just be sure you are strong enough to handle whatever you may find. And if you find nothing I suggest taking the program off.<p> Email me at jdmac1@yahoo.com <p> jd

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The reason I did not talk about a web site 'ordinary woman' is because this is all I could find...<p>http://www.ordinarywoman.com/<p>don't think he's handing out there. There's more to the web site name.

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in the dark_45,<p> The email you sent me appears to be your husbands email account. If this is his email I cannot send you the information.<p> I would not like the thought that you wanted this snoop information and your H got it instead. <p> So before I reply to your email please let me know that he won't be the one to open it.<p> jd

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Perhaps she can be instructed on how to set up her own hotmail/yahoo/etc account.<p>[ March 13, 2002: Message edited by: zorweb ]</p>

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JD,
yes I a'm up now. H is in bed hast to get up very early in am. Cathy

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How could/would she determine if "anti-snoop" software has been loaded? <p>Does the snoop program remain unseen or disguised as a 'system' process if one brings up a "Task List" on Windows 2000? (Or other os's)

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lost,<p>I know that starr (www.iopus.com) can run in stealh mode. It's very hard to find when running.


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