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I want to call him so badly. I want him to come over and hold me. I've had a week from hell. My Mother almost died from a bi-pass and is still in the hospital, my son has been in hospital twice for 104 fever, 3 month old baby is now sick and I've been up all night and my H is still screwing his assistant. I can't take it.<p>I miss him so much today and unfortunately sent him a text message on his phone just simply saying that. I miss him. I feel weak.<p>I feel so alone. The only person I talk to about this (my sister) said today she doesn't want to hear about it anymore, I should just dump him. that probably is the right answer yet I can't bring myself to do it.<p>he calls asking how to get home yet he's doing nothing. Maybe the writing is really on the wall and I just don't want to see it.<p>I feel so alone and sad tonight.
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Hi HopefulandSad,<p>I'm sorry you're going thru this. Those feelngs you described are what I feel now and again. And by coincidence, I'm having those pangs for my ex as I type this. But I digress ....<p>In a good Plan A you should be looking at what you can do for you to make you a better spouse and all around person. Have you seen your doctor for ant-deps? Without them it's not easy to get thru this.<p>You can't make you H feel or do anything. He has to come upon it on his own and in his own time. What he is doing right now is out of your control. <p>In the meantime, you can be really good to yourself and take care of yourself. Treat yourself to a few luxuries, a nice long hot bath, or maybe a movie you've wanted to see. You deserve to feel some peace and not hurt like this. Try and be good to yourself, you're important.<p>Jo
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Hi HopefulandSad,<p>I'm not going to give you any advice. I'm certainly not qualified. <p>Just know there are others going through what you are right now. You are not alone!<p>I'm miserable too. Sucks, doesn't it [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img]
Take care of yourself. I am thinking about you.
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Sorry I can't do anything to help...except send a hug. Hope it helps to know some of us have been there, and care about you
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