Dancer, do you want me to chuck an egg at their house or something? I am in Cairns on the 27th then Brisbane on the 1st/4.<p>Small world huh? <p>I've been to US too guys. Loved NY, been to Las Vegas - wow. Hawaii was nice, but I guess I've got all that here anyway so it was similar to home. <p>I tell you though, there are a lot of Aussie males who could do with reading this site!Its well know that Aussie males are not very romantic or good listeners although thats a big generalisation and things are changing, slowly!

HAD to go 4 a while - baby awoke...asleep again.<p>You guys still there?<p>I'm from....should I tell? I'd say anyone who knows me and comes on here has probably worked out who i am now anyway...<p>from...Queensland!<p>Dancer

Dancer, its great to have another Aussie on, Jacky is from Melbourne as she said so we just need Tas and we got the East coast covered.<p>When I get home (i'm at work) i'll look for your story.<p>Hope we can all talk again soon, this really gave me a lift, and I really needed one!

Evensong? I just reread the post and realised it was not Dancer. So we have other Aussies. Evensong as i said, I can arrange an egg or whatever. <p>Actually feeling a bit down, just discovered mobile bill and all the calls to Thailand. I'm loosing hope now.

Hi Seahorse,<p>LOL, can you make that a rotten egg? They're not at the flat anyway, supposedly he's gone 'camping'. Whatever that means. He's in Ashfield, where do you live? If you ever have the inclination to pay them a visit, I'd love to have confirmation that she's living with him.<p>Evensong

I'm not that far from Ashfield, I travel into the city heaps because i love it. are they listed? I could try to confirm for you, if that's what you really want - i'm finding out that discoveries hurt quite a bit.<p>Where are you in Q?<p>I'll be offline for a little while but will come back later.
Liz<p>[ March 15, 2002: Message edited by: Seahorse ]</p>

Hi there, I'm back...perhaps we should get a chat line set up...<p>Back to my original thoughts...<p>Its good the other players felt that way...or do they really??? Come on...footballers? My sister married one and he cheated on her twice and showed no remorse. He said thats what everyone does, no big deal...so are these guys for real???

Dancer<p>Ps - are you guys allowed to arrange egg-sassintion atempts over this site?

Yeah Dancer that does seems a worry re the footballers, maybe they do need helmets - too many hits to the head!<p>I still don't know what to say to WH tomorrow. I'm really starting to sweat it.<p>So now there are four of us, Seahorse, Nina too, Dancer and Eversong - wow!

Oh Seahorse,<p>I am so sorry at your latest discovery.......but at the very least you are getting a view of the reality, and believe it or not, you can work from there. (((((((((HUGS!!!))))))))))))))<p>There are actually a few more Aussies posting...but they post rarely now....let's see, um, danafox, bonnet, is it desert rose(?) and Rosebank(?) Gee it has been a while for those two, and I have forgotten their names. There wasssss a poster from Melbourne before my time, I saw it in the archives. We should set up a chat line...I am on MSN, but of course I will be out of action for at least a week, so...I will check to see if anything was organised in my absence.<p>Yeah, I forgot footy players are meatheads....they probably got paid a bonus to drop the guy. Did you see the photos in the paper girls? What a look of guilt that man had...but we all know it is too early in discovery for him to feel like that ....probably just cut up about being found out!!!<p>His poor wife. I am going to send her a lot of healing light and love. What a thing to have to deal with publically. <p>Footy, huh? I know where I'd like to kick HIM!!!<p>love and light to you guys anyway.<p>Jacky

Hey Ladies of OZ,<p>Glad ya'll met up.<p>When I was teaching World Geography 2 yrs ago, when we did Oz, they had to write stories using ya'lls slang. they had a really jolly time doing it, especially with"FAG".<p>Jacky, good luck on your surgery

Seahorse, I know the address of his flat. He's got a new phone number that he's refusing to tell me. The college his OW was studying at listed the address of the flat as her mailing address, and I know that she moved out of her previous accommodation to... well, obviously my WH. I guess I'd like to know for sure, just for my own satisfaction. My email is tgirl2001au@yahoo.com.au, if you'd like to discuss this further.<p>FAG, as in cigarette or homosexual? :-)<p>Evensong

hehe Evensong...I thought the same thing!!!<p>Evensong, are you really sure you want that info? Well, if it turns out for the negative, we will be here for you.<p>Sing, thank you for your kind wishes. I am getting a little jittery about it, but it is for the best.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

Jackie, I sure do want that info. I'd even thought of getting a PI, but can't afford it. If I wasn't so darn sick I'd be out there myself, investigating. As it is now, I feel I can't tell anyone about him and OW because I don't have exact proof that she's living with him. There is overwhelming circumstantial evidence, but I still feel that's not enough. My husband has always been so honest and straight, I don't think anyone would believe me as it stands now. <p>Evensong

Goodmorning,<p>No, dont get the paper...too depressing. I've decided not to turn the news on in the mornings anymore for 2 reasons,<p>- my 6 month old is starting to expect it (uh oh)
- its not a great way to start the day, its full of so much bad news that it makes me feel heavy B4 the day has even begun...<p>Theres something else that is eating at me and has been for 2 weeks now. A friend of mine confided that someone in a very high profile position within Christian ministry here fell some months back.<p>I know of and personally so many people in leadership who have fallen because of adultery and I'm feeling a bit despondant about it. I never knew of anyone really, accept GB, that it had happened to, now since its happened to my H everyone has fessed up or I just see it more (like wen you get a V-Dub then everyones got one).<p>I'm struggling because everytime I see someone preaching or in up-front ministry I automatically get suspicious of them. Its like I expect them to be involved in A's just because theyre leaders. Ive been in ministry myself, so I've been on both sides. Ihate feeling like this. I rebuke it. But its still a reality. I've gone beyond just not trusting my WH to not trusting any leaders just in case. I dont know who to talk to about it as it concerns me. I understand now, I think, why so many non-Christians wont follow Christ because of the bad examples we make of our lives in front of them.<p>Sorry guys, I'm really disturbed about this. I feel like crying about it.<p>CYA<p>Dancer [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]

Evensong I will email you.<p>Dancer, I feel the same way about young Asian women. Its like they're all out to steal my H. I know that this is not me (really, truly) and I know that this is something I must address if I am to function in Society, or I can become intolerant and mean (which is not a part of my personality). I'm not sure what the answer is. I think you have to stop yourself when you think it and reprogram your thinking.<p>For example, H was home last night and one of his Male friends came over. They went to get a video and came back with Rush hour 2 - set in Hong Kong and one of the actors wanted to get it on with the Asian women. I don't know which one of them picked the video, but I was seriously pissed. I thought, I've got two options - go bananas or go out for a walk with the dog - I chose the walk, just left didn't tell them where i was going and just cooled off. <p>I felt better because that was one situation i learned to deal with my feeling and control my anger.

Whats your H doing home?<p>Good for you getting out...how did you REALLY feel when you got back?<p>Dancer

My H dosen't really have anywhere else to go - I think that's what it comes down to. I am happy to see him, but frightened fogese - I hate the nastiness, although I told him that I will not put up with it.<p>When I got back I still felt annoyed at whoever had got the video (I didn't ask), but the video had progressed to being in Las Vegas (still some Asian women in it). I sat and watched what was left of it and I got over it. Funny, actually, now I say that I can't even remember at what point it was, it just happened.