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I HAVE BEEN WORKING ON PLAN A FOR SOME TIME.SHE CAME TO ME THE OTHER DAY AND SAID SHE WAS GOING TO GO TO A MOTEL FOR A NIGHT BECAUSE SHE NEEDED TIME TO THINK,SHE WAS TIRED OF LIVING LIKE THIS .THAT WAS ALL SHE SAID ,SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.I HEARD FROM HER FRIEND SHE WAS GOING TO BE WITH THE OM. WHEN SHE COMES HOME I GUESS OR HOPE SHE LETS ME KNOW ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.SHOULD I STAY WITH PLAN A OR LET HER KNOW JUST HOW MUCH THIS IS MAKING ME CRAZY.I'M HOME WITH THE KIDS ALL WEEKEND SO I HOPE I CAN KEEP IT TOGETHER FOR THEM.THEY ARE ALL I'VE GOT RIGHT NOW
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If you have been in plan A for some time and now she tells you she is going to a motel for the night (and according to friends will be with the OM) and leaving you with the kids; then I think it is time for Plan B. There is no reason to be treated like a doormat. Why do you allow her to have her cake etc. If she wishes to rub your face in her affair then I think it is time. She is putting your health at risk and is now totally disrespecting you. I think you need to ask are these the values you wish your children to learn?
When you allow someone to walk all over you they will never have respect you. I wish you luck.
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