BH,<p>So glad that he signed, what a load off for you!!
Good for your daughter!!! To bad he has made things the way they are so that she feels the need to send the e mails.<p>Perhaps, Just perhaps, WH has thought about you not being there next door anymore, Perhaps, just perhaps he doesn't like that thought!!<p>I would go for something in the dryer vent!!! Just remember wear gloves!!!<p>Take care! Hope you had a good Tuesday, It's D 17th B day today, had fun with her at school today, had a senior sing to her everytime he seen her in the hallway!! She doesn't know that I am the one that put him up to it!!<p>Dawn [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Momrate and Diddallas....WHAT GREAT IDEAS!!! Now if I could just find some road kill around here! LOL!!<p>Dawn...Happy Birthday to your daughter!! My daughter is 18 and I have a 16 year old son and a 21 year old daughter. They have all been very supportive, but the 18 year old is extremely compassionate, sensitive girl. She has been a source of strength for me to say the least!! <p>I had a good day today. My H and I talked about finances, the house, the kids, etc. and he didn't even get angry or raise his voice. It was quite nice. Through experience though...I know that this is the UP part of the roller coaster and who knows when the ride will fly down, but until then I will enjoy this part of the ride!!!<p>Thanks again everyone for the support, and of course, the laughs!! God knows I could use that!!
You guys are the BEST!!
BH

BH,
I am so glad to hear that you are finally getting out of your situation.
To everyone else, I am BH's sister and I can not tell you how much you ALL have helped her. Thank you so much. I always thought her H was the best...how deceiving some people can be. The OW was someone that I thought was BH's good friend, my daughter was her son's "girlfriend" (ages 9 and 10). I think the hardest thing was knowing that BH was alone, she is truely one of the nicest people I have ever known. To think that these two people who supposedly loved her could hurt her is just incredible. Thanks to BH's faith in God, her trust in her MB friends and her family's love, she will make it through this.
Thanks To you all, God bless.
Paulac0920

Paula and BH,<p>How lucky you two are to have each other. I always wanted a sister!!!<p>I do have an awesome brother that has been support central!!!<p>BH is a very strong loving person and she didn't deserve to be treated this way, and I am sorry that this has happened to her. Amazing how much our WH change their personalities to fit their needs. I am sure that he was a good person when she meet and fell in love with him, or she wouldn't have married him. <p>Not only have we been there for her but her for so many of us and we thank her for always taking the time to be there.<p>God Bless you both,<p>Dawn [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ March 20, 2002: Message edited by: daybreak ]</p>

Hi Paula,<p>Good to see BH's sis on here. It's quite easy to see BH is a wonderful, caring and sweet person ... and I'm sure easy to love too. <p>What she has had to live with is criminal, it's devistating enough as it is to be betrayed, but to have it in front of you day-in and day-out is outrageously cruel. And I can imagine she felt she had no safe harbor to rest, home was a toxic place for obvious reasons.<p>The WS's can be in a thick FOG when they do such unconscionable things, they simply are not thinking. The become extremely selfish while in an A, they just don't realize the pain they have caused. <p>Very best to you Paula. <p>Lv,
Jo

Wow, what a surprise Paula!! Dawn, Jo, Paula, thank you all for making my day, my month, my year!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!! What a nice thing to come home and read! This whole ordeal has made me such a stronger person but I couldn't have made it through without the support of all of you! THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!
BH