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Hubby don't like to perform the sexual act, ever, just masterbates me as well as me do him. Don't know if this is the place to find an anwser, but i'm sure someone will let me know. Why would a man not want to have sex? He is not gay, nor has a nother woman. I am sure of this. He only likes a tickle, he can perform, just don't want to, says this feels better than sex. open for any suggestions, and yes, i have told him i need it.
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I assume this is not the way it has always been. When did it start? At that time, what was going on with him or between the two of you?<p>There was a change, what was the catalyst?<p>What is he angry about? In the book "I Love You, Let's Work It Out", Dr. Viscott says that male sexual disfuntion is usually caused by pent up anger at one's partner. <p>To me it looks like a passive agressive way to withhold or punish you. He get's his jollies but will be darned if he'll really statisfy you.
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thanks for the helpful hint. But I think you missed it. We are happy together, and this has been the way we have done things for 18 years. We started out with intercourse, but when he started the other with me, he would always just want me to help him finish. He just isn't into the sex act. It was not to punish me. I am also the only woman he has been with. ever. We have not had a fight either. disaggrements, but no fights or yelling. There is just not much life here at all. Am I wrong?
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First, I agree with Zorweb, who has been an ideal personal person to help solve the "wondering" things I have.<p>Second, unbelievable in how you describe your H. About the only advice I can give is to openly ask him why he may be the way he is.<p>Third, and this is way way out there, you may have to go along with the things he wants to see if he'll go the extra distance to give you what you desire and want.<p>Wish I had more for you.
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