Hi,<p>I have lost count how many times H has dumped OW. I would say this is the 3rd or 4th time.
Anyway Ow's been leaving H's stuff by his back door (H never moved in with her, but has left several items at her place)H is very annoyed about it, about her style of doing it a little by little and not informing about it, just leaving stuff outside.
SIL told me about H dumping OW. I asked about it from H a day later and got it confirmed. H said he's so tired of it all, doesn't want to discuss it anymore just wants to move on. OW's simply not the person he wants to be with. Said he's finally made the decision, not because someone demanded it from him, it was his choice.
Since I quit plan B (was 3 months in it)H has been very good. I don't know where the old ugly alien H disappeared,(maybe it went with the witchOW??!!) He is showing care and affection, not overdoing it, we just enjoy each others company.
Not clapping my hands yet, but.. maybe soon I could call it plan B success in saving the M. Plan B's always a success!!

Well thank God for you that she is out of the picture....that is a start. But, you're right not to jump for joy just yet. She is gone, but the problem of what made him do it probably isn't. What you need to do is first find out why he did it. Then go from there. It won't simply disappear. My husband cheated once, then twice, then three times.....each time citing the reason that "something is missing in our marriage". Well, that "something" still compels him to seek out other women. Find out what the bottom line of your problem is and work it out before it happens again and destroys you. Atleast you have a husband who seems willing to work on your problems. I wish you tons of luck....God Bless.