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To divorce or not to divorce...
#987288 03/20/02 08:17 PM
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Okay here's the scoop...
D day was Sept. 2000. I rode the roller coaster ride for 13 months...Plan A all the way... In October of 2001 WH was ready to return to the marriage. But I was ready to walk away...<p>I love him, but I'm not IN LOVE WITH HIM. It's killing him to know this and that he created the situation. He doesn't want to loose me, but I've become numb.
I see all of his negative points and I'm not happy any more...<p>Does the love come back? If so how long until it does? And what can I do to initiate its return?<p>????????????
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Re: To divorce or not to divorce...
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i dont think you can do anything but open yourself up to the possibility. remember when you met him-you didnt love him immediately, you fell in love with him. he has to make you fall in love with him again. this is my opinion, i think all the work is gonna be on him now. date again and try to enjoy each other.
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Yes, it's hard. But I do think you can get that feeling back, in time. Just like my H had to wait to feel that way for me, when he was getting over the OW. Our christian counselor told us that if he did the work of counseling, and prayed about it, God would help him to find his love again. And he did. I wish you luck! Don't give up

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