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Sorry, Ive taken it out for now as I'm rethinking my strategy on this, it doesnt sit right with me at the moment...Not sure I can have/want no contact...<p>Dancer<p>[ March 21, 2002: Message edited by: Dancer ]</p>

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I liked it. It set forth good boundaries and it let him know that you still loved him but couldn't be subjected to anymore of the pain that constant contact includes. My prayers are with you as I know that it will be difficult not to contact him.
I will pray for strength and peace for you and the calm demeanor you need for your little one.
"When we call on Jesus all things are possible" Have you heard that song by Nicole C. Mullen? Very inspiring.

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Top of my head as I'm getting Chris ready for a field trip.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I recognise I was not fulfilling your emotional needs and that you needed some extra encouragement and support from having such low self-esteem <hr></blockquote><p>Maybe just take out the low self esteem thing. Leave the beginning but take out "from having such low self-esteem" He may feel like you are taking a shot at him.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>And if you never return, that I will probably live as a single woman and mother, focussed on the things of God.
<hr></blockquote><p>He might consider this an open ended invitation to go sow his oats, then come back whenever he wants. Or that you are telling him how perfect you are, and how you intend on being perfect until the end of time. Do you really intend to live like that forever? What if in 6 years you are introduced to a widower fella from church with a kid or two who has an amazing sense of humor and loves you like you never imagined possible? Just a thought.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> As soon as you are willing to discontinue your relationship with O-Blah W-Blah and purpose to seek personal and marriage counseling I will be ready to talk about our future. <hr></blockquote><p>Good line, but check grammar or syntax - do you mean propose? <p>Very good. It gets your point across and is clear. By the way - what the heck is SMS? Check the spelling of recognize, and on your list of the ways you will contact him be more clear in point #2, is it only by mediator or mediator and email that is nice, and what mediator should he use, his mother or the one that is appointed by family court?<p>Elizabeth
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