W wanted to file taxes together even though we are living together right now, we were living together all last year though. My question is that she is still not willing to try to work out our M, and I understand that I broke the vows of our M and so I really want to know if I should let her go, she is still angry, and very vindictive, she left behind divorce papers and took my personal property that I had before we were married, she pawned my guitar, and she says that she is entitled to it, as compensation, if that is the case, am I better off just letting her have the property as a way to let her know that I want to try to work this M out, if we go to court for a D, I sure want to ask for my things back.
D-Day 1/8/02
Me WS 39 2nd M 1 son 11 yr from 1st M
Her BS 39 3rd M 21 yr son and 19 yr girl from 1st M
I was asked to leave house 1/8/02
1/14/02 she filed restraining order
2/21/02 plan a letter no response
2/28/02 she moved out of house
3/5/02 I moved back into house<p>We are communicated via email only and she does not want to reconcile but divorce because she has right, and she says she wanted out any way and my A was the out that she needed.

Sounds like she is done. Have you guys done counseling. Individual counseling. I would file together. If after this, then see what happens. Seems like nothing is happening to be positive. Seems like she is holding the marriage by the reins. That is quite different then here, my WH is holding the reins, and me the BS is getting put down quite a bit.<p>Just file for this year, and see if that shows anythings. Go for counseling.

I have decided to go ahead and file with her and see what happens, she does have the marriage by the reigns and is doing everything she can to destroy me, and I deserved to be punished, but when does she say enough, probobly not until I die, because she does have a life insurance policy on me that we just took out at the beginning of this year, but it does appear the marriage is over though, keep praying for us!