If she uses a computer at home - go to
www.spectorsoft.com and read what they can do for u.<p>If she has a cell phone ask the company for a detailed billing record and go through it with her asking her what every weird number is. Look for 1 number in particular and recognize a pattern and length of call.<p>If she has a car you can purchase a tracking device from local spy type stores which you can look over.<p>If all else fails and you still think it is something, hire a p.i.. They know how to record activity better than you ever could. <p>Also, keep a journal from now on - ask her innocent questions about where she was e.t.c... record the answers. Wait a while then ask the same thing - perhaps in a different context - see if she lies or forgets her first answer.<p>All this sounds extreme, but it is neccessary affair research - IF something is going on. R U normally a jealous or paranoid person regarding your W? If not then I would say your instinct is telling you something for a reason and you should verify her honesty through research of this type. She is your W and you have every right to know what is going on in her life - especially that which will affect yours.<p>If you discover something, read SAA, get to a councellor, and start using principles that MB ascribes. There is another approach as well, look at
www.divorcebuster.com. More tough love approach, but I suspect effective as well.<p>Hope it works out that you find nothing. <p>Be well
