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Just need to vent before he comes over
#988057 03/24/02 01:54 AM
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WH is coming over for Chinese food tonight. He asked me if we could get together after I told him to stay away for a week.
Inside I am really feeling annoyed with him but I don't want to LB tonight.I am fed up because I think he's with her today. I am fed up with his back and forth indecisiveness, his weakling need to take care of us attitude, his wanting to hide out all the time, his life of denial, his poor me I'm the victim in life, yet his ability to look so normal about it all!!!!!!!!!<p>I will appear happy tonight. I will be friendly and likeable. I will not go beyond frienship with him though, and will not sit next to him on the couch. I will not talk about our future. I will be sexy but not too available. I have my own life! I have my own life! I HAVE MY OWN LIFE!
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Good luck! You sound strong, even if you don't feel that way. Act it, it drives them crazy! My H couldn't believe how independent I got during our separation, I think it scared him a little. Bad thing is I lost most of it when we got back together and I feel badly about that. HOpe it goes well
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Maezy ....<p>Sounds good to me. Are you in Plan A? I assume you are since you're seeing him. <p>Keep your boundaries clear in your mind. What he does or says does not dictate how I feel .... just keep saying that to yourself.<p>Too bad you couldn't stuff his fortune cookie with something telling ... like "Confucious say: One who sits on fence too long, may lose choice and only end up with splinters in butt"<p>Good luck, Hon. You're in my thoughts.
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Good luck MAEZY. Just remember that even if it doesn't work out, life goes on. There are other good people out there that you can surround yourself with. Give yourself a big hug before he arrives. A person who is confident and content with themselves can be very desirable!!

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