Seahorse,
I don't want you to tell me what you think I want to hear. I was just cautioning you from my own experience of in the 7th separation, after serving D papers beginning to date a guy that had become a very good friend. And, when I think back the guy my H lived with, hit on me several times when I would call for my H, he was out with the OW, and the housemate would say "Hey, come on over and we'll give your H a surprise in the morning." He is now married to my H's OW, so I can assume he said the same to her.<p>It's good to be wary. I didn't intend to imply that I thought you were out fishing for guys. You are in a very vulnerable state...and it might temporarily feel better to receive positive attention from men, but your situation can get worse if you would turn to someone because of your disappointment, confusion, pain.<p>This is the place for honesty. And, you can get been-there, done-that views of almost anything. I'm giving you mine. Honestly. And I don't mind being scolded or set straight...I can take it...I may still never agree, but I'll consider conflicting opinions.<p>Still envying your vacation [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] .<p>[ March 27, 2002: Message edited by: Lor (Lor) ]</p>