Note: Compiled by NSR, maintained (???) by Onegoing (Moderator - Just found out) and alot of work and knowledge from old MBer's.

This is a library of threads deemed by some people of the forum to be of value.Some of these are from the "Infidelity Archive", and "Read-Only Posts" forums.If you find any threads that you think are valuable?and you'd like to share it with others?let us know?end(reply) your suggestions of notable threads to onegoing@hotmail.com .

People of the Forum:
Roll Call Index MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000 (alphabetized listing)
Profiles MBer: NSR Date: 8/6/2000. . . (until the 'system' Profile is fixed)
ROLL CALL
Pregnancy/Child forum) MBer: happy_girl Date: 1/9/2001
Roll Call(General) MBer: NSR Date: 2/12/2000
E-mail Exchange MBer: NSR Date: 9/21/2000
"New" E-Mail Exchange MBer: Bozos_Deb Date: 1/31/2000
email exchange(old) MBer: not again Date: 6/1/1999
Roll call: who are we?(old) MBer: facing choices Date: 8/9/1999
How about creating a directory? MBer: peppermint Date: 3/1/2000
Background of Your Situation. . . (Roll Call for Divorcing/Divorced forum) MBer: Sheba Date: 3/30/2000
Check in and tell MBer: Bozos_ Deb Date: 4/12/2000
Updates, post your updates here. MBer: Bozos_Deb Date: 5/31/2000

References:

General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies) MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000
Forum Changes MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000
Acronyms, Smilies, UBB Codes MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000
"Snoop Tricks for BetrayedSpouses" MBer: NotQuiteOverIt Date: 2/4/2000
Other Useful Sites MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000

Books/Book Reviews/Comments:

Books MBer: OneGoing Date: 12/29/2000
Private Lies MBer: mickey65 Date: 9/7/1999
Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus MBer: Hummingbird Date: 12/16/1999
Readers of "Love Must be Tough" - Please Reply MBer: Roll Me Away Date: 12/1/1999
'After the Affair' by Janis Abrahms Spring MBer: loving hubby Date: 2/13/2000
"Torn Asunder" MBer: LadyK Date: 4/17/2000

General:
some things to remember MBer: HGBrawner Date: 11/19/1998
Some suggestions. . . books and other "stuff". . . from anold-timer MBer: HGBrawner Date: 8/12/1999
MB principles MBer: Chris(CA123) Date: 9/8/1999
Suse Pontificates MBer: suse Date: 12/9/1999
ALL MIGHT FIND INTERESTING!!! MBer: avance Date: 2/3/2000
What is the relationship like between a WS and the OP? What everyone should know. . . MBer: Genie29 Date: 3/4/2000
Help for betrayers who want to stop, but can't. . . MBer: BrokenButNotCrushed Date: 3/30/2000
lostva help me MBer: tootrusting/lostva Date: 5/19/2000
Just what IS a happy, healthy marriage? MBer: TruthSeeker Date: 6/14/2000
The Three Myths that pervade society! MBer: Sheba Date: 9/7/2000
What Changed My Mind MBer: justhere Date: 11/13/2000
What you've learned from marriage. . . MBer: Kayleigh Date: 11/18/2000
Who is this person I married? MBer: HarryHat Date: 12/5/2000
yes,THIS STUFF DOES WORK! MBer: alias Date: 1/31/2001
Request/advice for newbies MBer: Dazed and Confused Date: 4/13/2001
Never tire from doing what you KNOW is right MBer: Sir Hurts Alot Date: 4/24/2001
recovery thoughts for newbies, including Isb MBer: Jenny Date: 4/24/2001
The difference between the Fog and Love MBer: Redon Date: 6/20/2001

Emotional Needs:
Emotional needs vs. "wants" MBer: HGBrawner Date: 3/4/2000
EN: Recreational companionship MBer: airheart Date: 3/15/2000
love workbook (teaching HNHN) MBer: lizam Date: 1/12/2000
Gary Chapman's Love Languages MBer: SueB Date: 4/27/2000
EN Questionaire MBer: Brent Date: 3/27/2001

Reduce/Eliminate Love Busters:
Please remind me why I'm stilltrying MBer: Faithfully/trustntruth Date: 8/16/1999
PLEASE "LISTEN" For everyone READ MBer: camjon Date: 12/22/1999
Using a "filter" to not LB MBer: scanman Date: 1/20/2000
How to say my feelings without it being aLB MBer: Lora/trustntruth Date: 4/10/2000
ANGER Management MBer: weep Date: 10/6/2000
Letter to OW MBer: LearningLife Date: 2/27/2001
EN Questionaire MBer: Brent Date: 3/27/2001

Before/After Discovery-Day(D-Day):
Changing the images! MBer: wasstubborn Date: 5/27/1999
What lying betrayers have said. . . MBer: Sweetpea Date: 9/15/1999
50 signs your spouse is having an affair (All found on this board) MBer: Triumph2 Date: 2/23/2000
A competent well thought out response please MBer: john meade Date: 5/10/2000
2Sad. . . this is REALLY GOOD!(Betrayer's decisions) MBer: lighthouse Date: 5/16/2000
What I've learned (very long) MBer: Beerman2 Date: 6/17/2000
About hope, trust and happiness MBer: HGBrawner Date: 2/24/2001
What I have learned since d-day. MBer: OneDay Date: 4/19/2001

Legal Support:
Martindale-Hubbell Lawyer Search site(many)
MBer: LMS(Tired Lady) Dat...ur Kids Did or Said - Let's smile today. MBer: Essyboo Date: 2/24/2000
what do you tell the kids when you get tough?? MBer: Claudia103 Date: 3/7/2000
If you think infidelity doesn't affect the kids. . . MBer: wasstubborn Date: 3/10/2000
Should I tell the kids the truth??? MBer: Keridwen7 Date: 3/16/2000
How "healthy" is it to stay married for the kids? MBer: Crushed Date: 4/13/2000
Horrible situation, please pray. MBer: - Date: 5/18/2000
recommendations from child Psych. MBer: - Date: 6/7/2000
FYI: Article on divorce and children. . . MBer: SoTired2000 Date: 10/6/2000
Question list for Gem MBer: cdcollins Date: 3/12/2001

Medication/Stress/Depression:
Medication has negative effects MBer: Suzy Q Date: 9/14/1999
Medication for depression/anxiety Please give info MBer: Pahakissa1 Date: 11/29/1999
K - anxiety, OCD and marriages MBer: Francis Date: 12/3/1999
Cognitive Behavior Therapy for Marrriages(1) MBer: Francis Date: 12/30/1999
Cognitive Behavior Therapy in Marriages2 MBer: Francis Date: 12/30/1999
Five Steps To An Almost Stress-Free Life By Zig Ziglar MBer: hopefull_1 Date: 3/7/2000
TS, DT, KAM and anyone else who can use this. . . (Depression) MBer: Francis Date: 3/8/2000
Antidepressant Remeron Any one on this????? MBer: bc Date: 4/10/2000
Paxil Withdrawl MBer: Triumph2 Date: 5/22/2000
Has anyone tried Wellbutrin? MBer: wings Date: 6/20/2000
Prozac? MBer: momma Date: 6/23/2000

STDs:
Affair and STD MBer: judee4u Date: 3/2/2000
Is it wrong to ask Spouse to be tested for STDs? MBer: Tulip Date: 3/3/2000
STD Alert MBer: weirded out Date: 3/15/2000
Questions about STDs. . .Anybody? MBer: CJB80 Date: 3/15/2000
STD's What should I look for MBer: Reborn Date: 8/28/2000

Counseling:
Will Counseling Help? MBer: mickey65 Date: 9/7/1999
Question for K (or anyone that knows : ) ) MBer: Susan/K Date: 2/24/2000
Counselling MBer: wasstubborn Date: 3/16/2000
Christian Counseling MBer: NSR Date: 3/25/2000
Finding a counselor??? MBer: teddy bear/K Date: 4/18/2000
looking for a counselor MBer: zorweb/K Date: 5/11/2001

Plan A:
TODAY I LOST IT!!! MBer: ThisAlex/Genie29 Date: 12/5/1999
Plan A - 101 (2nd ed.) MBer: NSR Date: 6/10/1999
Question for Plan A Veterans MBer: lostva/K to quandry Date: 2/2/2000
Plan A.What's the amount of time? Help!!! MBer: w.g.up.h Date: 2/2/2000
When is enough enough ? MBer: Bozos_ Deb Date: 2/4/2000
(related thread)
To, Sir Hurts Alot MBer: TomH Date: 4/19/2000
Is Plan A just a big act? MBer: kancan Date: 5/7/2000
Plan A is Power! MBer: az allison Date: 7/31/2000
Plan A versus Doormat MBer: Everhopeful Date: 8/10/2000
Question for the MB Veterans(Honesty) - Let's Agree to Disagree Here MBer: Carolina Belle Date: 8/22/2000
Length of time for Plan A. . .let's have a discussion! MBer: mthrrhbard Date: 1/6/2001
The Misapplication of Plan A MBer: Distressed Date: 2/27/2001

Plan B:
Plan B - 101 (2nd ed.) MBer: NSR Date: 6/10/2000
2 year time frame? MBer: already divorced Date: 1/22/2000
Do WS's Ever REALLY Come Back after plan B, or is that just in the book? MBer: Bernzini Date: 8/11/2000
Plan B isn't for Wimps! MBer: Resilient Date: 9/9/2000
Plan B - 201 MBer: NSR Date: 9/29/2000

Withdrawal from OP:
Calling all betrayers: stories of withdrawal-how long? How bad? MBer: Sad4Now Date: 8/17/1999
For Schizzo: a reply to your question(When WS Confesses) MBer: BrokenButNotCrushed Date: 3/18/2000
Withdrawl Support. . . "THE LIST" MBer: NoMas Date: 5/11/2000
A testimonial about "no contact" MBer: rockaway Date: 1/20/2001
Why I think the WS should quit their job if they work with the OP MBer: new_beginning Date: 4/22/2001

Recovery:
All your best reasons for ending contact with OM/OW? MBer: 2 4 life Date: 4/25/1999
How to rebuild my spouse's trust? MBer: redman Date: 8/23/1999
How do you deal with "TRIGGERS?" MBer: NoTrust Date: 9/7/1999
Can I forgive????? MBer: indy032 Date: 1/31/2000
How do you define "recovery"? MBer: 2sad4words Date: 2/10/2000
For those who may need a little inspiration. . . almost 1 yr. and counting MBer: Genie29 Date: 2/25/2000
Truths I learned through my spouse's affair. . . MBer: BrokenButNotCrushed Date: 3/12/2000
Things my husband did to rebuild trust MBer: HGBrawner Date: 3/17/2000
Making New Memories MBer: HGBrawner Date: 3/25/2000
When Triggers Stop Being Triggers MBer: wasstubborn Date: 3/26/2000
on knowing the "truth" MBer: loveWASblind=lWb/popeye Date: 5/9/2000
The apology letter from my husband MBer: Crushed Date: 5/18/2000
An amazing breakthrough! MBer: lostva Date: 5/23/2000
Where is the beaming face icon??? MBer: schizzo Date: 5/24/2000
Forgiveness. . . MBer: just_me Date: 6/5/2000
Second year in recovery MBer: Kat1 Date: 6/26/2000

Success Stories:
Sadness,Pain,Regret, Is it worth Reconciliation? MBer: Paul Moyers Date: 9/29/1999
Two years today. . . I remember when MBer: HGBrawner Date: 2/24/2000
Update. . . we need encouragement and advice MBer: lostva Date: 2/28/1999
A good news story MBer: hanora Date: 3/9/2000
A story of hope. . . How I survived my spouse's unfaithfulness MBer: BrokenButNotCrushed Date: 3/9/2000
The sunny side of the street. . . ,a conversation that brought much closure MBer: mthrrhbard Date: 5/9/2000
Successful reunion after affair? MBer: kuuipo Date: 5/11/2000
An amazing breakthrough! MBer: lostva Date: 5/23/2000
Where is the beaming face icon??? Most likely a long update. MBer: schizzo Date: 5/24/2000
From the D/D forum to Recovery. . . MBer: Lor (Lor) Date: 5/26/2000
hi all, update. . . MBer: mercy Date: 5/28/2000
She put the wedding ring back on - it does happen MBer: SamH Date: 5/30/2000
Update and words of thanks to all MBer: InShock Date: 10/11/2000
3 Years. . . . . . . . . Success Story! MBer: Almost Happy Date: 1/17/2001
MB Success------3 years later with Thanks!! MBer: Nerlycrzy Date: 1/18/2001
Winners and Losers MBer: Distressed Date: 4/12/2001
Marriage Builders Works. I'm Proof MBer: kalote Date: 4/24/2001
Leilana's Success Story MBer: Leilana(scroll down) Date: 5/6/2001

Separation: and Divorce:
To the wafflers. . . Divorce is NOT an Option! MBer: Pilot's wife Date: 10/31/1999
Oooooh!! A Place to Call Home. . . MBer: Sheba Date: 3/29/2000
Divorce Related Web Sites MBer: lonelymom Date: 5/11/2000
Time Mag. Sept 25 - What Divorce does to kids MBer: weirded out Date: 9/19/2000

Abuse: (Various)
Verbal Abuse MBer: JanW Date: 3/1/1999
H is an alcoholic and some on Alcoholic's board say to not put up with affair now what? MBer: bc Date: 6/7/2000
Help for betrayers/abusers MBer: TheStudent Date: 10/14/2000
Therapist says H deals with his Alcoholism, or there is no chance for getting out of MBer: burnedspouse Date: 1/3/2001
Verbal Abuse - How Much, How Handled? MBer: Sisyphus Date: 1/30/2001
Verbal Abuse - Definition Inviting Comment MBer: Sisyphus Date: 1/31/2001
Anyone out there dealing with substance abuse as well as affair? MBer: LetSTry Date: 2/15/2001
Question for Kenneth-Abuse vs. bipolar disorder MBer: StillHers Date: 2/19/2001
Overcoming a Controlling Husband MBer: Leighann Date: 3/6/2001
Guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life MBer: FaithfulWife Date: 5/3/2001
What is verbal abuse? MBer: roger Date: 5/25/2001
Can someone help me understand alcoholism? MBer: gsd Date: 5/25/2001
A Poll You Wouldn? Want To Be a Part Of - Were You Ever Sexually Abused MBer: Nyneve Date: 6/20/2001
The Stories You Have Created MBer: Desertrose7 Date: 6/25/2001
Nyneve. . and anyone who responded to herpoll MBer: bitsy Date: 6/30/1999
Anyone else dealing w/childhood abuse issues in recovery? MBer: mynewme Date: 9/8/2001
Do you think affairs are as bad as physical abuse? MBer: Persevering Date: 10/1/2001

Plan A/B over. . . new beginnings:
There is life after divorce! MBer: RWD Date: 3/12/2000
A settlement finally -- divorce pending. MBer: Animac/ZAPFT Date: 4/19/2000
When does Plan B end?. . . (long) MBer: NSR Date: 7/29/2000

Inspirational Messages:
For all of you - Do it Anyway by Mother Theresa MBer: Saskia Date: 10/6/1999
Friends. . . Take Time MBer: NSR Date: 11/18/1999
Friends. . . Believe in Yourself MBer: NSR Date: 11/22/1999
Thanksgiving Gift to ALL My Friends!!!! MBer: Roll Me Away? Date: 11/27/1999
Something for everyone, especially the newbies MBer: Empty Shell Date: 12/2/1999
This made me feel good. . . . . MBer: lostva Date: 12/4/1999
God's Mercy MBer: Hope Hope Hope Date: 12/4/1999
Friends. . . The Wings of Faith MBer: NSR Date: 12/8/1999
Faith MBer: Chris (CA123) Date: 1/25/2000
Instructions for Life MBer: sidney Date: 1/26/2000
Just wanted to share a thought MBer: Viki Date: 1/31/2000
Please all read . . . Lessons In Life MBer: jendan69 Date: 2/4/2000
I sent you a message, a helicopter and a boat. . . MBer: Guard Date: 3/14/2000
Friends. . . Live Each Day to the Fullest MBer: NSR Date: 3/22/2000
For Single Dads MBer: NewMan Date: 4/11/2000
Friends. . . The Road of Life. MBer: NSR Date: 4/13/2000
Reluctantly. . . I'm here MBer: NSR/Keridwen7 Date: 4/18/2000
I ran into a stranger. . . MBer: ThisAlex Date: 5/10/2000
some words to ponder. . . MBer: beth28 Date: 5/17/2000
The Art of Marriage MBer: pondvj Date: 5/24/2000
something worth reading MBer: falsely accused Date: 5/25/2000
Encouragement: Sometimes you have to be a mule MBer: SKM Date: 4/12/2001

Inspirational Stories/Songs/Poems/Faith:
Forum for Power of a Praying Wife is up & running, Thanks Steve MBer: Lor (Lor) Date: 11/18/1999
Women's Bible Study MBer: Lor(Lor) Date: 11/18/1999
GOOD NEWS. . . wisdom I received from an old married couple MBer: LaurieC Date: 2/4/1999
serenade and flowers. . . MBer: Kat1 Date: 5/26/1999
Story of Forgiving - For everyone MBer: Liz Smith(POGP) Date: 11/21/1999
. . . never that far. . . MBer: NSR(Christmas) Date: 12/12/1999
Saints MBer: NSR Date: 1/15/2000
YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND. . . MBer: ThisAlex Date: 1/29/2000
IMPORTANT MBer: soulloss(DESIDERATA)/WilliamJ(IF) Date: 2/12/2000
Two stories for wayward spouses with children. MBer: hopefull_1 Date: 2/26/2000
WELL WORTH READING. . . . .even if it is a bit long MBer: azhootie Date: 3/6/2000
GOD IS ABLE TO HEAL THE PAIN OF DIVORCE MBer: azhootie Date: 3/17/2000
The gift MBer: (Patient Love)/NSR Date: 3/17/2000
Dear God MBer: LadyK Date: 3/17/2000
His Wife, Her Husband. . . here is another. . . MBer: mercy Date: 4/7/2000
A Great Poem for all!!!!!!! MBer: bighope Date: 4/12/2000
Prayer. . . Feelings of Guilt and Shame MBer: NSR Date: 4/13/2000
The Story of Life/Very Profound!! Must Read MBer: Tyra Date: 5/9/2000
May have read this before, but it is pretty good. MBer: Paul Moyers Date: 5/15/2000
Between Wakefulness and Dreams - Poem(same as above) MBer: Stonehenge Date: 5/20/2000
A Prayer for Angels MBer: buffy Date: 5/31/2000
A Little More Inspiration for the Weekend MBer: lonelymom Date: 6/2/2000
My Gift To All Of You-Chicken Soup For The Soul MBer: heartache Date: 6/13/2000
FA: I found my bible. . . MBer: K Date: 7/21/2000
interesting link MBer: hopefull_1 Date: 7/23/2000
MB Concepts in Christian Scripture MBer: NSR Date: 8/26/2000
Life's Emergency Phone Numbers MBer: Sweetpea Date: 9/27/2000
Something worth reading. . . MBer: Butterfly Date: 10/10/2000
For Christians - Re: Forgiveness MBer: SKM Date: 1/17/2001
Hypocrisy in the first degree - help me Catholics? MBer: worthatry Date: 4/15/2001
Bible Verse = Forgiveness MBer: ZZZ4991 Date: 5/4/2001
What the early Church said about conditions for divorce MBer: SpiritofHope Date: 5/9/2001
What faith are you? quiz. . . MBer: TruthSeeker Date: 5/14/2001
faith as related to H/W relation, etc. MBer: gobyfish Date: 5/20/2001

Ongoing Inspirationals:
Inspiration MBer: NSR Date: 5/23/2000

Quotes:
Famous quotes from betraying spouses MBer: Chris (CA123) Date: 5/18/1999
What YOUR husband told me. . . . . MBer: QueenofFools Date: 3/20/2000
Plan A Questions - Encouragement Needed MBer: NSR Date: 2/2/2000

Whoever is attempting the Plan A(betrayed or wayward). . . should understand that *THEIR* spouse(wayward or betrayed) defines what is a Love Buster!
PASSION revisited MBer: jamie-lee Date: 2/2/2000

EXCUSES ARE BORN TO KILL RESPONSIBILITY

He came ALL the way back!!! MBer: Troublec Date: 2/26/2000
Nothing destroys a romantic relationship more quickly than for a person to beg for mercy. . . by Troublec
The past is the past; however, we cannot change what we do not acknowledge.. . . by Fiancee
Need advice--why try anymore? MBer: jamie-lee Date: 3/16/2000
If you don't have an afair with your wife(spouse) someone else will. . . by Getting_Better
Inspirational Quote MBer: LadyK Date: 4/6/2000
Fears over tomorrow and regrets over yesterday are twin thieves that rob us of the moment. . . by LadyK

Polls:
Poll: What Methods Would Decrease Adultery? MBer: Fingers Crossed Date: 1/25/2000
POLL QUESTION(co-worker or not) MBer: quandry Date: 1/27/2000
Poll - do you react more to your S's failures than you did before; is it insecurity? MBer: schizzo Date: 2/2/2000
Poll-Songs to stay away from MBer: beth28 Date: 2/10/2000
Poll-Songs that give you strength MBer: beth28 Date: 2/10/2000
Positive thoughts poll MBer: beth28 Date: 3/9/2000
Poll for betrayed with angry spouses MBer: Nellie1 Date: 3/13/2000
A Fun Poll: What is something you have Always wanted to do? MBer: Caterpillar Date: 3/15/2000
EN survey for us MB posters MBer: 2sad4words Date: 3/15/2000
Poll: What should we "betrayed" call ourselves? MBer: NSR Date: 3/17/2000
To Lighten the Mood: What is the *most* romantic thing your spouse has done for you? MBer: Caterpillar Date: 3/21/2000

Fun/Funny/Entertaining:
How to restore/destroy a marriage (fun) MBer: Animac/vmv Date: 8/5/1999
Men are from mars, women are from. . . HUMOR MBer: Sir Hurts Alot Date: 10/11/1999
These Atty's are getting on my NERVES! MBer: ceecee Date: 12/10/1999
Relationship Education For Men (humor) MBer: Heartpain Date: 1/20/2000
Relationship Education For Women (humor) MBer: Heartpain Date: 1/20/2000
47 Facts About Women (humor) MBer: Heartpain Date: 1/20/2000
Three wishes (humor) MBer: Sweetpea Date: 1/20/2000
Joke Thread MBer: Keosha Date: 2/28/2000
interesting theory. . . on the subject of religion. . . MBer: soulloss Date: 3/4/2000
Some "male-bashing-humor" MBer: NoMas Date: 4/5/2000
What Planet are my Counselors from? MBer: wasstubborn/(NSR page 2) Date: 4/6/2000
It's A Name Game -- and I'm Dorkey Hamsterhiney!! MBer: Butterfly Date: 4/19/2000
Bit o' humor MBer: Chris (CA123) Date: 4/24/2000
For the Guys!! (But I LOL'd too!!) MBer: Sheba Date: 5/2/2000
A Little Light Humor for all of Us!!!!!!! MBer: MusicMan Date: 5/11/2000
A bit of much needed comic relief. . . MBer: Keridwen7 Date: 5/16/2000
Infidelity Limerick Challenge!! MBer: 2sad4words Date: 5/18/2000

Miscellaneous:
Are women less forgiving than men? MBer: Essyboo Date: 11/11/1999
Not all OP are pieces of trash MBer: new_beginning Date: 2/13/2000
The forum cycles with Giver & Taker MBer: NSR Date: 3/25/2000
Character, Courage, and Conscience MBer: Troublec Date: 4/6/2000
Need a Psychology Major here, and please hurry(MMPI-2 Test) MBer: trustntruth Date: 4/20/2000
SO MUCH HATE IN MB!!! MBer: ThisAlex Date: 4/25/2000
I don't believe this works -sorry MBer: energizer_bunny Date: 8/28/2000
Vasectomy? MBer: Thronx Date: 10/31/2000
Equality in Marriage MBer: 711 Date: 2/26/2001
To Be or Not to Be --Parents??? MBer: Hawthorne Date: 3/21/2001

<small>[ May 13, 2003, 10:35 PM: Message edited by: Husband2you ]</small>

Good idea H2Y... Thanks for including this on GQ!!!

Thanks for the posting.<p>This will be updated shortly (I hope) with the new style of "MB links".<p>Our "moderator tools" have to be tweaked first; and when they are patched up, I'll be updating them with the few recommendations I've gotten.<p>The same sill be true for the "Roll Call Index".<p>Thanks,<p>OneGoing

Ongoing,<p>Replied to in Feedback/Technical Problems.<p>[ March 27, 2002: Message edited by: Husband2you ]</p>

Have the Notable Threads ever been updated? Is NSR or OneGoing even around anymore? If this hasn't been updated.. Do we want to update it?

Vetern MBer's and Moderaters, what do you think? I can maintain the thread or recreate the Notables with some help, IF it hasn't already been done in the last year.

Suggestions?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Husband2you:
<strong>Is NSR or OneGoing even around anymore?
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I see NSR respond to a post in Divorced/Divorcing once in a while. If you want to contact him you might put a post in there with his nick in the subject line.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Husband2you:
<strong>Vetern MBer's and Moderaters, what do you think? I can maintain the thread or recreate the Notables with some help, IF it hasn't already been done in the last year.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That might be nice. I know that back in the day, this post was used as a referral point for a lot of newbies.

I've also noticed a trend toward pointing newbies directly to the Harley material on the site, which I think is also valuable. Once in a while I see a comment made about the purpose of Plan A, or what kind of contact is acceptable in Plan B, or some such thing. IMHO if you do put this together again it would be an excellent idea to include links to the relevant web site information as well as the pointers to helpful posts.

There have been several attempts at this since NSR became less active here, but none that I'm aware of in the last 6-12 months.

bump please

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Great place to read and learn.

fudd.

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