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People keep mentioning this book, and I have never seen it. Please tell me which list I should put it on:<p>List 1) Books that will help me understand the dynamics of affairs and my best responses to WH as I cope with a continuing A.<p>List 2) Books I am keeping a list of in case I need them if we separate (Hope for the Separated, etc.)<p>List 3) Books I am keeping a list of that will help us if we are ready to recover together. <p>Does Torn Asunder fit in list 1 or 3?
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#1 continuing through #3. It has a 90 day plan to try for a fence-sitting WS.
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Bgentle,
We had to order this book at the bookstore(Barnes&Noble)to get it. The local library didn't have it in.
As to your question...... I would say that it does reflect into all 3 categories but the order I would select would be #1-#3-#2. You need to understand what all this is about and possibly "why" it happened then if you and your H decide to try recovery it can help direct that. If the separation occurs it also addresses that.
Brw
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Here's an alternative to Barnes & Noble ordering the book (they told me the same thing)<p> web page Someone on this board told me about it. It's associated with ebay & you can get books a lot cheaper. That's great news considering the library that I am accumulating!!!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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#1#3 and 2. This was my favorite book. Wish I had it on day one.
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