Hi there was wondering if any of you guys have been in the same situation as me & have any answers.
My hubby & I have now got to the stage of deciding 2 seperate, well it's more than that actually our property is sold & he is moving on I am at a loss as to what to do as I dont want this to happen..... Anyway a quick background hubby had an affair many yrs ago & then formed a friendship with a woman I know just as friend but after what had happend i found it hard to deal with & caused hassle. I know I have not been easy on him but it came to a head & I said that I was not happy with the time they spent 2gether (this is a vary much shortened version) anyway my hubby became very distanced to me so i guess I nagged him until he finally told me that he didnt love me anymore things got so bad that I said well I can't live like this (it wasnt at all what i wanted but i couldnt see any other way)I guess i was hoping that this would shock! him out of things! (stupid eh) anyway now things r spiraling out of cotrol with lawerys about 2 b involved. I dont want to fight over any of our stuff & we have discussed who has what BUT can anyone tell me why a couple of times he has come 2 me 4 sex?? & syas that this is all we have now anyway the other day i asked him why he wanted it & he said he didnt it was only because he was drunk!! has anyone else had this problem... sorry this is a bit of a ramble but i am just so hurt & confused he has become so cold & if i say cant we just try he says you know it will never work there has always been something missing in our marriage (he has known that he wanted out for about 2 yrs) I now have to leave here & find a home & something to do sorry to be rambling but thats the way i feel 2day......

Wrungout,<p> I am gald that you have found this site. Read all that you can on this site. I feel that he wants sex because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. I am not very good at giving advice, but you are in the right place.<p>Indy