Hmm, I need to know more about this too.<p>I saw something the other day on Discovery Health that sounded a lot like Conqueror's quote. <p>It is killing me not to kiss. we used to kiss quite well. We now have SF, but not the kisses. And he promised not to leave (in the mornings, or whenever) without kissing me, but I had to keep running after him to remind him. So last week I told him that he needed to do it without me chasing him and he agreed and today he left without kissing me and it broke my heart. But if I bring it up isn't that another form of chasing? <p>I will feel much closer to recovery when we have our kisses back.

Cali, what about initiating a little peck on the lips AFTER s*x? They say men think more like women after sf, so who knows!! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]

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Artist/Band Cher
Song title The Shoop Shoop Song (It's In His Kiss) <p>Does he love me, I wanna know
How can I tell if he loves me so?<p>[Is it in his eyes?]
Oh, no you'll be decieved
[Is it in his sighs?]
Oh, no he'll make believe
If you wanna know
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
If he loves you so
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
It's in his kiss
[That's where it is, oh yeah]<p>[Or is it in his face?]
OH no, it's just his charms
[In his warm embrace?]
OH no, that's just his arms
If you wanna know
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
If he loves you so
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
It's in his kiss
[That's where it is]
Oh, it's in his kiss
[That's where it is]<p>Whoa, hug him and squeeze him tight
Find out what you wanna know
If it's love, if it really is
It's there in his kiss<p>[How 'bout the way he acts?]
Oh no, that's not the way
You're not listenin' to all I said
If you wanna know
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
If he loves you so
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
It's in his kiss
[That's where it is]
Oh, It's in his kiss
[That's where it is]<p>Whoa, hug him and squeeze him tight
Find out what you wanna know
If it's love, if it really is
It's there in his kiss<p>[How 'bout the way he acts?]
Oh no, that's not the way
You're not listenin' to all I said
If you wanna know
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
If he loves you so
[Shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop]
It's in his kiss
[That's where it is]<p>Oh, It's in his kiss
[That's where it is]
Oh, yeah it's in his kiss
[It's in hiss kiss]
[That's where it is]
Ooh, it's in his kiss
[It's in hiss kiss]
That's where it is<p>It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Ooh, it's in his kiss
That's where it is
Ooh, oh it's in his kiss
Oh, oh, it's in the kiss
That's where it is

Okay, call me crazy and please don't hate me for my response to this but here is my experience.........my husband wouldn'tkiss me until he totally got over OW. It broke my heart. Kind of like a sick, "I'm trying but my lips still belong to her" Ugh.

Kissing is about the only physical thing my WH did with the OW. And on D-day and the weeks and months that have followed, he has repeatedly kissed me, passionately kissed me, (must I go on?). Maybe in his kisses I sensed his remorse and his recommitment to me. I don't know. But we kiss like lovers even now 4 months after d-day. Hope it continues for many years to come. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Hurray - I'm not the only one. For last 12 moinths have been convinced our marriage failed because I couldn't kiss - and after 17 years of marriage that really hurt.Husband said I wasn't passionate enbough, did give enough of myself etc. As he now won't near me to let me try to improve or learn it has made the whole thing harder. I'll read the kissing thread posted. Thanks for making me feel better about myself. Jante