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#989657 03/30/02 05:14 AM
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It's been a while since I updated, so here goes.<p>H is being more loving, affectionate, and considerate, although he still doesn't want to do things that I really feel I need...like renew our wedding vows. But, I have just shut up about it, since I want him to WANT to do it and not do it just to appease me.<p>As far as I know, he hasn't been to Cafe Woman's restaurant since last June. Also, since the bar closed, I haven't had to worry about whether he is out there hitting on the bartender or not.<p>Anyway, since there is no place to go in this little town and we have been stagnating at home, we joined the country club last weekend.<p>We were out there on Saturday night, and Cafe Woman was there with the guy she's been seeing. I didn't say a word about it. Neither she nor H said anything to each other, but I do think he was looking at her later in the evening. Still kept my mouth shut.<p>Well, last night, I had to go out there to return some CDs a friend had loaned us while H was at a friend's fish fry. OW and her guy were there. To my shock, I noticed that he had a wedding ring on! Uh-oh! I thought! Then I noticed that SHE was also wearing one! Woo Hoo!! Turns out that they got married a month ago!
[img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] <p>WONDERFUL!!! Makes me feel much better to know that she is probably NOT going to be there by herself! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

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Wow, what good news, Lady!<p>I am glad to hear you are still sticking with your man. I hope he comes around one of these days and marries you all over again. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

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Great to hear the good news! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] ABOUT YOU AND YOUR H that is... Focus on your good progress, that outweighs OW's progress and getting on with her own life, although that IS good too! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I'm smiling with you!


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