Everyone,<p>I thank everyone for your responses to me. <p>My husband and I are doing our best to work this out. Last night we had another argument. But today he came to me in tears. He wants to do what it takes to make our marriage work. He agreed we could look for another Marriage Counsellor. I'm so happy, I thought we may be done.<p>I have asked him to come here. He says he isn't ready for anything else, that counseling is enough for him right now. <p>I've been reading so much here. All the posts here and a few other boards <Emotional Needs, Just Found Out and Recovery>. There are so many intelligent people here. <p>FWIW -- I think I belong on Recovery, at least I hope I do. I will probably be posting there from here on in. <p>I ordered the books His Needs/Her Needs and Surviving an Affair. Hope to get them soon. <p>Thank you again for all your help. My husand thanks you too. <p>Jo