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OK betrayed husbands, how far did she move the children from you?
#991007 04/04/02 12:58 PM
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I was curious about the betrayed husbands and what life is like without their children.
How far did she move them from you?
Me - 130 miles (2.5hrs)<p>Did she take them out of the state?
Me - Yes (with court approval, not mine)<p>How many children and what age when they moved?
Me - 1 daughter, 4 years old when moved<p>It's still a woman's world out there in this department. I miss my daughter terribly and now see her growth in spurts. It's very hard to be involved in the education process under the circumstances.
Re: OK betrayed husbands, how far did she move the children from you?
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Yep catamount, you were screwed. What was the basis for her getting custody? Just because she sits down to pee?<p>I'm better off than you. My X didn't seek any more than 50/50 custody, although she threatened to. I think her attorney probably convinced her that - at least in this US state, Maryland - being a mother gets you no more than being a father. On the flip side, being faithful gets you no more than being an adulterer.<p>Anyway, we live only a few miles apart and stick to 50/50 for our 13 yo son. Who knows, though, what HE'LL choose to do in the near future as far as living arrangements.
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I'll speak for my H. He got custody of their 3 children when she moved out to live with her OM.<p>He has now moved 1600 miles away when we got married. She has not been a very involved mother since her affair anyway. And for several reasons we feel the children are better off far from her with as little contact as possible.<p>....<p>In my previous marriage, I tried to move out with our son as my H was the WS and abusive. He protested in court and I was not allowed to take our son. So I moved back in. It was another 4 years before he finally told me I could take our son as long as I got the h3ll out of dodge.

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