Hello All!<p> Yesterday I got a fantastic book in the mail. It is called 101 Nights of GRRReat Sex by Laura Corn. It is filled with ideas for sex 2 times a week for a year. Sice reading it I have come up with 50 more ideas of my own to add. <p> There are pages for her eyes only that tell the wife what to wear, do, say, to set up interesting scenerios (spelling? sorry). <p> There are pages for his eyes only that do the same.<p> They suggest building up to the event by dropping clues, hints and doing creative things so anticipation, desire, excitement builds up during the day or even for a few days. There is a lot of creative mystery involved. <p> Some of it may be shocking or too suggestive for some but it is all legal. The book even says that. You do what you are comfortable with. I just think it has great ideas.<p> One of my favorites was based on the idea of how visual men are. So to pin point that aspect they suggest having sex with a strobe light on!! Who would have thought!? (Be careful Strobes are known to cause seizures in some people) But with each flick of the light you get a freeze frame effect. They suggest wearing a shirt or nightie with LOTS of buttons down the front so you can RIP it open and watch the buttons fly off in slow motion!! I thought that was so great I went out and bought a strobe light. It will probably collect dust in my closet but I'll have it should the opportunity arise someday!<p> The book is so great! Maybe my H will get a chance some day to see my wild side. I really really hope so and I think he will. But if he does not- Boy will he miss out! And... WATCH OUT H #2!!<p> Good Luck!
Forgiver

What a novel idea .... strobe .... Hmmmmmm..... thinking. Therer is a former actress here in Los Angeles who teaches strip-tease to women who take the lesson home to their lucky husbands! She has a dance pole in her bedroom!<p>Pepper [img]images/icons/blush.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] <p>P.S. ..... with 2 teenagers in the home .... I can only imagine what they would say about a dance pole in mom's and daddy's room .... they would probably give tours to their friends.<p>[ April 06, 2002: Message edited by: Pepperband ]<p>[ April 06, 2002: Message edited by: Pepperband ]</p>

There is also a companion book, 101 Nights of GRRReat Romance. We have both books. I gave them to my H for anniversary or Valentine's Day a few years back. They're still sitting in his drawer. I've referred to them and expressed my desire to use them several times through the years, most recently a couple weeks ago. They're still in his drawer.<p>I guess it's time to drag them out myself and start it off, giving him his first "assignment" pages at the height of his delight with my first "assignment".

Forgiver, you've been on the Horny Goat Weed, haven't you? [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] LOL<p>I'll get the book!!!!<p>Hey pepperband, I was thingking about doing a course like that, but don't know where to start looking for one!! (I'm in Australia, but I'm sure we would have something [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] ) I've opted for Bellydance and Street Latin clasess that start in May instead. Don't know if they use poles in those but I guess I could work something out... [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

it does work to spice up the sex... I know I was not very availble to h.. when the a started.. if only I knew he would really do such a thing...I trusted him sooo much, and thought he would just give me time l.. until later... but NO! anyway... sorr y about the ow,, and her sexual escapades... I want to have her castrated!<p>Hugs and thanksf or the ideas... I boutht a book with 365 ideas , one for each day of the yr... and actually one book is ideas on pleasing your man, the otehr ideas for pleaseing your woman... so I guess we can try it 2 ways a day for a year?<p>thanks, H

Hey All,
Glad you were interested in the book. I am stockpiling. I always need a project. Now sex is my thing. I'm not getting any but I am getting lots of ideas. Like I said I hope my H is the one to benefit. But if he's not - WOW will he miss out!!! My next man (years from now) will be a VERY happy one.!!<p>Hi pepper! Tell your kids, the pole in your bedroom is a new exercise device you bought off an infomercial. Then get on the floor, wrap your legs around it and start doing situps. Or hold onto it while stretching and say "See, i'm exercising! This is a revolutionary device!" or tell them you have decided to celebrate Festivus year round. Have you ever seen that Seinfield episode? When George's father says he celebrates "Festivus for the rest of us!". Meaning instead of celebrating Christmas, Hannukkah, Kwanzza etc. You celebrate a holiday to tell others how much they irritated you for the entire year. It is a grumpy holiday. Just a thought!<p>Hey Conqueror! Thanks for the idea for the romantic book. I have to get it! Lots of ideas.<p>Seahorse! My Freind!!- So you're dreaming of driving hot men around in a hot car!! LOL! I say get the car and go!! I will with or without my H. Watch out! This whole experience has released a much wilder, carefree person! Thanks to my H! LOL! NO WAY am I on goatweed! I'm horny enough doing all this reading! There's no way I'm getting any action besides with myself! Hopefully my H will be willing and able to keep up if he comes home! LOL! Belly Dancing!! I love it! Sign Me up! Although I lost my belly!! Working out 7 days a week now, i'm flat as a board YEAH!! But I love the latin dance class! Don't you need a partner? My H and I took tango lessons. We even took private lessons after all the group classes. We loved to Tango! Oh Well. I miss that. I'd love to learn Salsa! But I have NO friends to be my partner!<p> Honey-Pie! (Beatles reference- I love the Beatles) Please tell me the name of the 365 day idea book. Is it any good? If you know of any other good books let me know.<p> SO far the 101 nights of GS is the only one I've read. I also have:<p>How to Satisfy a man Everytime and Have Him Beg For More... and Keep Him Faithful Forever
by Naura Hayden<p>Sex Q & A
by Anne Hooper<p>302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed
by Olivia St. Claire <p>Sensational Sex: THe Ultimate Guide to Sex and Passion
by Linda Sonntag<p>101 Ways to be Romantic
by Gregory Godek
HEY CONQUEROR!! I ALREADY HAD IT AND DIDN"T KNOW IT!!LOL!<p>The Bedside Kama Sutra
by Linda Sonntag<p>Great Sex for Life: Essential Techniques
by Linda Sonntag<p>Massage For Lovers
by N. Lacroix<p>Satisfaction: the Art of the Female Orgasm
by Kim Cattrall and Mark Levinson<p>203 Ways to Drive a man Wild in Bed
by Olivia St. Claire<p>Seduction: Tempt Tease and Tantalize Your Lover
by Snow Raven Starborn<p>Expanded Orgasm
by patricia Taylor, Ph.D.<p>The New Joy of Sex; A Gourmet Guide to Lovemaking for the Nineties
by Aalex Comfort M.D.<p>So that's quite a lot of reading for now. Hope I can help some others out who have available partners! Lucky stiffs! Pun intended! LOL!
Forgiver

Forgiver, your post made me think of something I saw in this "Tasteful Treasures" catalog (home parties for sex toys -- I was a bit shocked!) -- a TRAPEZE! I wonder what one could get up to with that?

Laura Corn has several books. 101 Great Quickies and 52 Weeks of Great Sex are a couple that haven't been mentioned here. <p>My H and I are working our way through 52 weeks. It's...well, great! Really makes you step outside the box. For me that is something that i am not used to and it's nice to have some help there. So far these have really pushed the comfort level for me. Nothing kinky, mind you. Just not your normal everyday follow the same plan kind of sex.<p>I would highly recommend Laura Corn's books to anyone looking for something new, different, and interesting in the SF department. These books were recommended to me by some friends and I'm glad I took them up on the recommendation.<p>Regretting