my daughter is in Kindergarten. 5 full days which is nice. I don;t know what I would do otherwise. My middle guy goes to nursery school 2 mornings a week. So there are times when its just me & the "baby". And in the afternoon when the baby naps my 3yr old is pretty good. I do take time for myself, but it's when my husband is home so it takes time away from him. I didn't mind it before, but even today for instance. My husband was home until 12n and I was upset that I had to leave to take Ev (middle guy) to gymnastics at 10:45. I didn't want to leave.<p>I also am a girl scout leader. That's what I do instead of "working". It's a job for sure, but no pay. I really love it. I do it on Thurs. when H is off. I guess it would be good to get someone else to help out woith the kids other than H & I. We have been "tag-team parenting" for ages. I guess it takes it's toll on the marriage, though. It's hard finding a happy medium, isn't it?