Just a short note this time, i would like to know if any WH out there can give me any insight (my details are on the post below) did you feel the way i am describing my husband, did you put up a wall to block your wife out & if so can you tell me why this was I know we are all different but but kind of like a males point of view on this he has dug his toes in soooo hard that they must be getting a tad sore by now. If this happened to you what was the outcome, I can't get to any councelling as we are too isolated & even if we could hubby is way past that stage in our marriage he said i am never going to get the opportunity to hurt him again...I didn't realise i was & feel that had he told me 2 yrs ago about his feelings 4 me that i would at least of had the opportunity to make some changes.