Hello everyone!
I need some suggestions from all of you out there for reading material on how to better manage being a BS... This is round three for me (that I am aware of), so one could say that it is getting easier for me to handle, but I find that always being around some sort of article, book, etc. on how to best go through (not LBing) helps me immensely!<p>I've read: "How to Survive an A, His Needs Her Needs, and Passionate Marriage" by David Schlarch (highly recommended!), but now require some new, or alternative insight, to help me through this (hopeful) recovery.<p>HERE'S THE CATCH. Because I actually live in the place that my user name states, Sweden, it is very difficult, expensive (and time-consuming to get a book here. So I am looking for web-based information/articles that exist out there that any of you would suggest.<p>Any ideas, links?<p>Thanks!<p>Sweden
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check out divorcebusting.com <p>I have been through many rounds but I hold little hope in a marriage recovery at this point. I have read Love Must be Tough by Dobson. This is more of a Plan B type of approach that I am taking with my situation and am unsure that is where you want to go. I am not sure if there is a website by the author. <p>The divorcebusting site is by Michele Weiner-Davis who has writen many books about saving marriages. Her site may have articles and maybe links.<p>I am sure many others here at MB will have more links for you.

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Thanks for the reply! I forgot to mention that I have read DBers already. It was over a year ago, and maybe I should read it again. I also have read the article by Dobson on the internet, which is always motivational, but maybe not always the best advice.<p>Thanks again!<p>Keep the ideas coming!<p>Sweden

Swe - one of my favorites, but I don't know of any on-line source, is Private Lies by Frank Pittman.<p>Could be you're looking at your best source of info right here. There are lots of good minds here that are willing to help.<p>Good luck,