Does anyone know if it would b apropiate to give my H a copy of the emotional needs questionaire at this stage. We have never done one & we are seperating for good but I would like to know where i went wronog I guess more to help me in the future I am plan a now but in a few weeks will b going to plan b when i leave here. By the way what time is it with u guys?? it is 9.24am here on Monday

Wrungout,<p>It's still Sun afternoon here - 4:23 Central time.<p>You might pull up a thread by LupoLady (within the last month) where she talks to her WH at the mediation hearings. <p>I think that is good that you want to know where you went wrong but I am unsure of EN Questionaire as the vehicle to get the anwsers you desire.<p>Are you really sure that is the only reason you want him to fill out the form? Are there still hopes?<p>What country do you live in?

HI am in NZ, so tis Monday here that must b why it's quite slow on here. Yes I do still hope 4 a happy outcome but am not pinning my hopes on it & now i certainly won't be letting H know that I am just going to be my usual self but giving away nothing as to my future plans which he keeps asking about & telling me his (he is obviously confused as he keeps changing his mind about what hes going to b doing & how he's going to go about it)<p>If you read my post CINDERELLA DID GO TO THE BALL you will see why i am a little confused about things & obviously S is one of his emotional needs when he feels like it.<p>I know I can't do anything for H he needs to get on with whatever it is he is loking for in life & so do I but the sad thing is that i would take him back tommorow (with conditions of course) I just think his mind at the moment is very confused & one day this will all come crashing down around him.. Cheers