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Well, my M is all but over now. Last night I found out more lies husband had told me, lies as recent as that day.<p>I cant take it anymore. I cannot allow him to disrescpect me further. The line is drawn so to speak.<p>I now I have a long hard road ahead. I cant imagine not having him in my life anylonger. He always was the centre of my universe. I guess from now on I will just have to settle.<p>Thank you to all that have helped me in the past. I wish you all the very best, and much sucsess in your life. <p>Susie [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
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Susie,<p>Please don't leave...we still need you.<p>I hope you reconsider.
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stbsa,<p>Please do not allow this to be your last post. I quota "I now have a long road ahead." This is a road that you will need many friends on, so please stay and allow us to help you thru the bumps and detours that you will find along the way.<p>Dawn [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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I second that. We will still be here if you need some reassurance or whatever you need. I have little ones too, so even if you have questions on that or advice, for that matter.<p>Sorry to hear about your H. I was hoping he would realize how wonderful a life he could have with you and your family. Sadly, many men choose not to see it.<p>You have a long road, yes. But I'm sure you will do fine. <p>Hoping
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Scared to be single again! PLEASEEEEEEE DON'T LEAVE US..... I am about in the same situation as you but I know that during my long walk alone out of my marriage I will need the support of all the great people on this site.<p>Please reconsider & come back & "talk things thru" when you need to, you will also have some excellent advise for us I am sure.. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]
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Dear Susie,<p>JMHO, don't leave. Based on your latest turn of events, you need this place more than ever. <p>When that happened to me, this is where I came for comfort and support. You may need to work things as if he is gone and the D is a future event. Many of us have lived through that. But the support was a lifesaver. I am grateful for this site and my H is also. For him to get to that point has taken over a year. <p>Anyway, that's my 2 cents. I have been in despair and then found my way out of it. I did it without the assistance and often in spite of the WS' actions. U can too!<p>Take Care, L.
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I agree with everyone. You need this sight now more than ever. You need everyone's support. I have now switch from General Questions to the Divorce/Divorcing topic. Try looking there. I am not even close to this decision yet. However, it gives me hope that if it happens, I can get through it. Everyone wants to help you through this time. Don't give up on yourself or this sight. You are stronger than you think. Today, I learned how to check the air pressure in my tires. Boy, was that an experience. But, I did it in stride. Look inside yourself for strength. And keep us in touch.
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I agree with everyone. You need this sight now more than ever. You need everyone's support. I have now switch from General Questions to the Divorce/Divorcing topic. Try looking there. I am not even close to this decision yet. However, it gives me hope that if it happens, I can get through it. Everyone wants to help you through this time. Don't give up on yourself or this sight. You are stronger than you think. Today, I learned how to check the air pressure in my tires. Boy, was that an experience. But, I did it in stride. Look inside yourself for strength. And keep us in touch.
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Ok, you got me. I'm hooked. I guess I really couldnt stay away.<p>My marriage is going thru an extraordinary level of difficulty at the moment, <p>More later.<p>Susie
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