First of all a big thank you and hug to everyone here! <p>A special big hug for FormerHopelessOne and lovehermadly – you two really helped me through my worst times!! <p>My H gets it! He really and truly gets it!! <p>
"I am very encouraged with the progress we have made. I don’t expect us to resolve our marriage over night or the next 6 months. I do expect us to resolve our marriage. I want and need you as my wife. I love you so much. <p>We both have the strength and ability to overcome our past. I love you for the effort you have gone to, to empower us and enlighten us to do this. I am very excited about the Marriage builders support you have introduced to our life. Sometimes I let my excitement get in the way of recognizing your feelings of hurt and sadness that I have caused. Truthfully I just want everything to just get better and put the past behind us but you have taught me better then that. I don’t always recognize your feelings right away but eventually it sinks in. You need to go through this in order to get on with rebuilding. I am going to work on being supportive and honest with you to help you with this process"<p>
I now see the light at the end of the tunnel. I realize that tunnel is full of twists and turns, but I really think we’ll make it. <p>I never would have made it this far without all of your wisdom and support. Finding this site and reading and reading and reading, has made me understand the process, which in turn has helped my H understand. By following the advise given, and not doing the crazy things I wanted too, we’ve overcome the first, and I think hardest, obstacle. I can’t thank you all enough. <p>I know now we have a lot of hard work ahead of us, but I’m comforted by the fact you’ll all be here when I need you. <p>Right now I’m on a high. It may not last, but I’ll enjoy it while it does. <p>Just wanted to share the news with you. You all are part of this victory. Thanks. <p>H&S
