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#994452 04/17/02 07:02 PM
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I pray for those who have come before and after me. No one deserves that which brought them here. I am sad but hopeful. <p>This place and the people here are a Godsend. Thank you for helping me even though you didn't know it. Just listening gave me strength.<p>A special thanks to JL. Wisdom is your God given gift. I hope you continue to minister here.<p>hg

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ditto-----my d-day is 4/21 and it will also be a year. It is sad but there is life after adultery.<p>The strength, wisdom and support that comes from wounded souls amazes me. <p>TW

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TW:<p>Phillipians 4:13 is my strength and my comfort. It's my "go to" passage. My prayers are with you and your family.<p>hg

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God I hate why this board is here.<p>I'm having a really bad night. Sorry all you good people.<p>hg

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hg,<p> Yes we all hate the reason for this board to be here. At the same time it has been and is a great blessing for me. <p> I hope your day/night is going better. <p> Perhaps this day will be a turning point of sorts for you. My d-day anniversary marked, not the end of my marriage(yet), but at least a turn around in myself on some things. Almost exactly to the 1 year day. <p> My life is still in some turmoil. But so much better than the past year. I pray you find your piece.<p> jd

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My 2yr dday is coming on may 10 and our anniversary is a week later so needless to say the month of May has alot of triggers for me. All I can say is grow closer to Jesus because he is the only one that will never disappoint you.<p>Awaiting his return
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thanks jd... Today is better just kinda tired. My wife wants to use this anniversary date as a "springboard" to a better future. Me too. I hope we do that. <p>How about you? I have been following your story and was wondering how things are going for you. <p>hg

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hg...<p>...my d-day is one week from today 4/25... this whole month has been hard...<p>Lor advised me that I could handle the triggers and not FOCUS on them and I am trying to do just that... I have not let them consume me or 'cause' me to break down... I have kept 'A' talks and 'relationship' talks to a minimum...<p>Good luck to you... <p>Cali

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<p>[ May 27, 2002: Message edited by: jdmac1 ]</p>

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HG, <p>My D-day was April 6th. <p>It seems like a lot of D-day's happen in April and May.<p>I agree that this site has been very helpful. I never thought I would say it, but it has. I have been on here for almost a year, and to see what all the BS's have gone through, and what they did to try to work on the M is a big help. <p>Good Luck<p>Dino


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