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manfromtheuk, please check in here.
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Hello,<p>I noticed your reply on Replaced's thread. It is obvious that you are in a lot of pain. I checked your profile and did not see any threads that you started in General Questions II.<p>Would you like to start a thread here and get support from people on GQII. You may get more responses here because of the higher traffic.<p>I know that it is so hard to understand how you can hurt so much and try so hard for your M and ultimately seem to fail. The blessing of MB is that even though the M may not survive, the BS can develop strength and self-confidence, and even relationship skills, that will benefit him in future relationships. MB skills are for you as will as your M. <p>Hope to hear from you,
Estes<p>[ April 21, 2002: Message edited by: Estes49 ]</p>
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The simple and natural responses are something that I need desperately. I need to feel SAFE that H acknowleges my pain, need validation from him, instead of justifications. I understand that I am not a carbon copy of H, he will not approach things exactly as I would. Are you struggling with "here is what I would do to help my wife heal if I cheated on her", "why is she not doing this for me?" I dont know what to do yet either. I dont even feel safe yet to ask for what I need. Just need you to know you are not alone in your frustration.
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^^^BUMP^^^<p>You there, manfromtheuk?

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