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Need some advice.....
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OK, here's the situation....

At Christmas, my parents told me about a woman who I was good friends with in high school whose husband had moved out and in with another woman. I haven't been in contact with her for probably close to 10 years---we both moved away from our small hometown, etc.<p>My question is---if someone you haven't been in contact with for years called you out of the blue due to this situation, how would you respond?<p>[ April 24, 2002: Message edited by: hurtinginil ]</p>
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How does your wife feel about it? How does she want you to respond?<p>How do you feel about it? How do you want to respond?<p>The bottom line is if your wife doesn't want you to contact her, then don't. If there is ANY insecurity in your wife, then don't contact her.<p>If you want to contact her then why? is this going to get you into a tempting situation?
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Sorry Luv, I wasn't very clear. I've been here for so long that I forget not every body knows my story. My H is the WS in our situation, so the issue that you are bring up is not applicable to us.<p>I think I'll update my sig line, so the newbies know who I am!!
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Wow, thanks for clearing that up. You are female and this friend who is in a similar situation as you is female. I think you should call. I think you could be a tremendous support for each other. Send her here too!

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