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When a man continues to have contact w/ a woman who is married to a nice man and has two lovely children and says he is miserable, is he sick or does he have no integrity? He says he cares about this woman who has done nothing but allow him to destroy his marriage. I have loved him totally and helped him raise his son, admired and praised him and (he says) have been his best friend. What is it he thinks he'll get out of continuing to do this? I have tried everything and am coming to the conclusion that I married a fraud...that he is a womanizer and does not want to help himself. He says spending time travelling with this co-worker created a caring...what about spending time working and living together in a marriage...should that create a caring too? I wish I could fall out of love with him. Help..somebody???

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I have been in your husbands shoes. I too worked with a man that I learned to care strongly about. That was my first mistake. Now I am on problem #2. Anyway the only way your h's problem is going to go away is if they no longer work together. That isn't always the end, but it sure helps not to see that person everyday.


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