Leilani started this thread In Recovery:<p>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=31&t=006532<p>I introduced the thought, from "The Passionate Marriage," that the person with the least amount of 'care' about the topic has the control... Twyla corrected me that it was emotional investment...<p>can you wade in there with some thoughts? I am at work and the book is at home....<p>Thanks,
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