MY WH has just called me to tell me he bought me a surprise. He bought a stereo system for our new house. Background. D-day december 2001, work on m PA ended??? EA continued D-d April 18 told him to choose, choose a seperation, but wants to stay in the house until sept, he is confuded doesn't know what he wants. still S* with me, i am trying to plan a, plan b but i am so confused, he is more confused than me. two beautiful children 9 and 7. What am i to do, i have tried riding it out, i have been understanding, calm, I want to make OW seem desperate, not me. He says he doesn't want to marry her, they love eachother, she needs him BLA
BLABLA. I wish this were black and white, I wish i had a crystal ball. I am getting such mixed messages, I am trying to meet his needs, but i don't want to turn this into a walk on sara trip. HELP HELP

Go read the book, love must be tough. Your H is doing a manipulation number on you and you have to decide whether you are strong enough to say no (go to plan B if needed) and move forward. <p>L.

Thanks L. Your right. I know he is seeing her right now. MAN THIS IS SICK. WHY THE *H* am i putting up with this. my reserve i love you is very low. Can't take much more.