Liz - forgive me for being so "controlling," but I wanted to start a thread for you over here.<p>For the others, here's the post I'll be refering to from Just Found Out:<p>Fins to the right, fins to the left, and you're the only Bait in town!!!<p>Now, I have a homework assignment for you.<p>The next time you have a conversation with your H, I suggest you tell him about swimming with sharks with the same enthusiasm as you told us. This will be a terrific Plan A activity, in MHO.<p>Next, as I was cutting the grass, I had this thought. I think it would be helpful for you and others, for you to start reading more posts by others, analyzing their situation, and offering advice.<p>Why?<p>Well, you're ready, IMHO, to offer valuable advice and I believe it'll help you see others' situations from an uninvolved perspective which will, in turn, help you "practice" your analyses for application to your own situation. Bootstrap, OK?<p>Dave<p>[ April 27, 2002: Message edited by: worthatry ]</p>

words of wisdom here for ya Seahorse.... <p>^ bump ^<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

For what it's worth from a newbie...I feel I'm able to help others since I have studied and learned a lot of the MB way...if only I could remove some of the emotions and be able to help myself with as much detachment, I'd be home free!<p>Join in, Seahorse!

wat,<p>She is busy chasing those shark ... LOL !!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] ^^^BUMP^^^<p>-RH-

Hi everyone, I saw this the other day and replied, but my reply went missing! I will take your advice WAT. I'll give it a go.<p>Sometimes I drop in on others thread and offer advice, but don't always feel I'm qualified, but then my plan A does seem to have some results this last week.<p>BTW did you know Grey Nurse Sharks are nearly extinct!!! I learnt that on Friday. There such nice creatures, we've got to save them!!!<p>I told H re my experience, it was a very interesting reaction!! I'll update you about it on my JFO post later - right now I'm at work and better get back to it, but lets just say I could tell he was more than slightly impressed and even though he tried to make out he wasn't he asked a fair few questions about it.