OK, OK.... enough slacking from me. I guess I'll buck up and post an update. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I had hoped to be able to give it some more thought so as not to offend and all, but.... I'll try to keep it short.<p>As far as my W goes, I believe the A is over (for about a month), and I believe she's serious about it this time. She's of course hurting very badly right now, but I can't, and she won't let me, do anything about it. She just signed a 6 month lease for an apartment (roomie driving her nuts).<p>She hasn't asked for, and I haven't given, my blessing on that choice. I still don't quite understand why she and her therapist think it's a bad idea for her to commit to our marriage. I hope it's not that she'd think she would be admitting that I've been right all along....because I certainly haven't been.<p>She has a basket seminar this weekend down in Branson, Mo. I hope she can have a good time with her girlfriends.<p>The prayer request I posted a week ago or so needs re-upped. W's dad has secondary prostate cancer that's spread to his spine. Please pray for their whole family. He's the rock, and I think they all need him desperately right now.<p>On to me. I'm doing well. Softball and Golf are in full swing. Work is so busy it sucks right now, but I guess I'd rather have too much than too little. I'm in such a better place than I was a few months ago, it's amazing. I'm happy with ME for the first time in a VERY long time. I know that I'm going to be OK, I only hope I'm able to share that with DW.<p>You all take care. I'm still reading and posting a little (in my vast spare time) when I think I might be of some help to someone.<p>Later,
K
