I had decided after posting yesterday to ask my husband some questions about A that I want to know. Got home, had a pretty good night. Husband was very attentive and kept telling me things like I looked nice, he loved me, etc. I was feeling very calm, which I haven't much in the past 2 weeks. Then, my daughter went to bed, which would have made it possible for me to ask. I started thinking about asking, and it made me get all shaky and I ended up getting sick. He was very good about it, just held me cuz he knew I was feeling bad. Never brought up the questions...I just couldn't. I want to, but I'm afraid it'll make him think about her or something. I don't know...nothing I think makes sense anymore. I've felt like s*** all morning and I don't know what to do... I want us to work this out so badly, but I also feel stupid for not just kicking him out.

dani1990,<p>Hang in there and let your emotion vented in here. Learn as much as you can about plan A ... it takes patience, presistence and consistency. Plan A is not for sisy and not every one could do it. However if you want to save your M you have no choice ...<p>Take your time, practice what you want to say.<p>Good luck -RH-