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Does the OP ever quit trying to "reconnect" when they were not the one who ended the affair? How long should it take the OP to get through withdrawal when they still see my WS every day?<p>I think this OW still wants to continue with my H even though he's ended it. Since she's so determined (even though her come ons are subtle) it makes me wonder just what kind of body language he's giving her. Are some OW just this determined?
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Hi Jamup,<p>I'd say that it's an addiction on both sides. So the OW is dealing with a rough withdrawal just as your WS is, even more so considering she (OW) was not in control of ending it.<p>JMO ....<p>Lv,
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For those of you BSs whose spouse did not end the A - the OP ended it. How long did it take your WS to get through withdrawal? Did they try to reconnect? If so, for how long after the OP broke it off?
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She will never be over the rejection totally. However, I'm sure she's the type to move on to someone else.
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