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Re: WAW, OM, giver her space but I feel I should draw her into discussion
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thinking of going back to school? Why stay at a job I hate that mekes me act like a big jerk?
Re: WAW, OM, giver her space but I feel I should draw her into discussion
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Trying to spend more time with kids and set some plans for places we want to go this summer. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]
Re: WAW, OM, giver her space but I feel I should draw her into discussion
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Wif easked me to meet eith her and her lawyer to finish paperwork for filing? NOW WHAT?
Re: WAW, OM, giver her space but I feel I should draw her into discussion
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she served me and I will not resspond,she may be granted the D by the end of this month. I am trying to be humble and show her unconditional love. meeting her tonight to discuss home and bills for her divorce. any suggestions?
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FYI,

A WAW - Walk Away Wife leaves and has nothing to do with you. She probably moves away and likely you would not even know where she is.

Yours is just doing the MLC/affair/"I'm confused" thingy. Not that it's any easier.
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Hi Chris,

I am sorry it is working out like this. If you have read the site much you know that sometimes the WS finds out they have made a big mistake and comes back. However, sometimes it takes them years, and sometimes they won't admit their error.

I think it's a good idea to go back to school. That will give you a "hobby" so to speak, a good place to use your energy. It speaks highly for you that in all this, you can think of improving yourself like this.

In any divorce, you should get a lawyer to protect yourself. I know you want to be nice, but you need to protect your future also. She is the one that left, don't give up everything.

Hope you and the kids are Ok. You haven't told us much about your state of mind lately?

All the best,
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