He who forgives ends the quarrel.<p>- African proverb<p>Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.<p>- Albert Einstein<p>Lives based on having are less free than lives based on doing or being.<p>- E.Y. Harburg<p>Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you'll help them to become what they are capable of becoming.<p>-Goethe<p>Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strength.<p>-Charles Spurgeon<p>The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.<p>-Elbert Hubbard<p>Courage is fear that has said its prayers.<p>-Karl Barth<p>Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is a daring adventure or nothing at all.<p>-Helen Keller<p>Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.<p>-Abraham Lincoln<p>Maturity is the ability to do a job whether or not you are supervised, to carry money without spending it, and to bear an injustice without wanting to get even.<p>-Ann Landers<p>If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities.<p>-Maya Angelou<p>We probably wouldn't worry about what people think of us if we could know how seldom they do.<p>-Olin Miller<p>Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies within us while we live.<p>-Norman Cousins<p>A broken heart is what makes life so wonderful--five years later.<p>-Phyllis Battelle<p>People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes.<p>-Abigail Van Buren<p>You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm.<p>-Collette<p>If you're yearning for the good old days, just turn off the air conditioning.<p>-Griff Niblack